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生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存，而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30，一个80多岁的老人进来了，来拆他的拇指伤口的线。5v H\*l!jJ
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他说他很着急，因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。mc2p!P.xp&~

%fPIkS GF5t 我让他坐了下来，我知道，至少要一个小时后，某位医生才会有时间看他。E~o:WBTw"D7_+]
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看他不停地看表，我决定先检查他的伤口，因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。-GSB(v,RES3GX6W,\
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他的伤口愈合很好，我给他拆了线，并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急，是不是还要去看另外的医生？
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他说不是，但他需要去老年公寓（NursingHouse，托老院）和妻子一同吃早餐。L3Ozm6S8u
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我顺便问到她的健康状况，他对我说，她是老年性痴呆症（Alzheimer'sDisease）患者，去老年公寓已经有段时间了。6[ u7JBs7dYsM4U
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我们继续交谈着，我问他如果迟到了，她是否会有点不高兴？0T.E8w/?X w/p
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他回答说，她根本不知道他是谁，她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。u(M j%nF CT*lE

M-K/v:?[w]XT.C 我很吃惊地问，"即便她已经认不出你是谁了，你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗？"
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他拍拍我的手臂，微笑着说，"她是不认识我了，但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"m,zEY_ t
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当他离开的时候，我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩，我忍住了泪水，想道，"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。w7`\1N}n1i ~

*X)s6NpJ.@lP4A 真正的爱，既不是生理的，也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。x@/{
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Fs\QRV%Cpz 最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的，他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。A)S5G#FHgU*z2R

*w8gR8ID bL3|,D 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存，而是怎样在雨中起舞。

Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain"k0?B^j ^ `^
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It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.
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I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him. iVs5lOi$~;F
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.
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On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.K9qs4Ek+U]u

F'h|.b*Y? The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.
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I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
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As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.
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He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
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I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?
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He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".0q+E6Y2_o2J ]"F)g
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I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".rKp0zN1D1AT\m
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The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.^gQR.D5V.o
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顶起。

真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。&r{KL3w
最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的，他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

让我对幸福有了另一种理解