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生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存，而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30，一个80多岁的老人进来了，来拆他的拇指伤口的线。X(D*r-bh`,W

"suh U@0I;V)])CT 他说他很着急，因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。
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看他不停地看表，我决定先检查他的伤口，因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。
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他的伤口愈合很好，我给他拆了线，并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急，是不是还要去看另外的医生？ZC|*k d:W2\R3NB

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我顺便问到她的健康状况，他对我说，她是老年性痴呆症（Alzheimer'sDisease）患者，去老年公寓已经有段时间了。^w1{dgD%n@+ci(C
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CT6h*piP:? 他回答说，她根本不知道他是谁，她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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我很吃惊地问，"即便她已经认不出你是谁了，你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗？""L F*A wu|!x"Q

'M3R:K{8E 他拍拍我的手臂，微笑着说，"她是不认识我了，但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"
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@]jBM f!k)`,f.@!jWd 当他离开的时候，我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩，我忍住了泪水，想道，"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。
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uiOn |D 真正的爱，既不是生理的，也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。 HI'ghi+IhfvL8R8`&K
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最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的，他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。l:`Y:l$H,|${

ejR e!^bi 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存，而是怎样在雨中起舞。

Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain
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True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.
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顶起。

真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。8HJ0r&\Ep}8Z
最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的，他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

让我对幸福有了另一种理解