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标题: [转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞 [打印本页]

作者: 二月花    时间: 2008-5-6 15:13     标题: 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。
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他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。; q6 }$ K& j) ^! \1 e7 H

" W- d" S; @, u6 a8 ?8 v% G" a& q我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。
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看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。1 O  I+ u* N% m8 A

* E3 h7 E$ [9 r+ d7 M* o他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?www.xmjeep.com" V% o' i7 V% M. q7 @3 p  S
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他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。
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9 {5 A; @2 \; t; K3 D: L我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。
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# L3 r) n- R% |7 `www.xmjeep.com我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?% c( y- `6 x& z& R

4 m% d' h$ J+ e' ~4 _' n3 `% }厦门越野联盟他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"www.xmjeep.com. j. s$ n2 l! q' u: K7 f7 ?" h; k$ k
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他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"
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  B: G; M) M( _( [当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。) w0 Z; U, [) n9 _5 F

  N- o1 g% y8 r% a/ z6 a/ m# o厦门越野联盟真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
作者: 二月花    时间: 2008-5-6 15:16

Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain
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It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.& |% m* p0 |( W. z9 f' \% w
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He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.; m2 N) W) [& {
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I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.
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On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.
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The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.厦门越野联盟/ e8 X6 Z& i, A! s

) J. S: O9 Q/ O3 P) B. Q* X, Q( ^3 x. l8 {厦门越野联盟I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
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" Q8 i7 T7 ^; S+ {6 L- V* FAs we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.
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He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.厦门越野联盟, ?/ p3 g  g, {7 Z

4 ~5 |: B; \' gI was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?
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He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".! W5 H0 W7 `6 c$ e: S; i' v! Y

+ t0 K: b7 T- o0 WI had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".
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9 i0 @, R8 u' E! ^7 W8 l. b1 P$ Y厦门越野联盟True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.厦门越野联盟6 \& U7 T' a( G! x9 R
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The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.厦门越野联盟  k3 Z% b' F. y8 J
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.厦门越野联盟2 ^5 q! K$ t+ Z0 U  Z
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作者: 纤腰    时间: 2008-5-6 15:20

好   感   人!  :)
作者: 巴西朴树    时间: 2008-5-6 17:04

还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
作者: 野熊    时间: 2008-5-7 10:51

顶起。
作者: 蜡笔小新    时间: 2008-5-9 17:58

真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。- Z+ |2 U+ l: Q0 F/ C" N
最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
作者: 龙飞野燕    时间: 2008-5-12 12:27

帮顶............................
作者: 舞蹈人    时间: 2008-5-13 11:04

再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
作者: 裂樱    时间: 2008-5-13 13:08

感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
作者: 小渔    时间: 2008-5-13 14:24

好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:
作者: 花儿    时间: 2008-5-16 12:50

让我对幸福有了另一种理解




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