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标题: [转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞 [打印本页]

作者: 二月花    时间: 2008-5-6 15:13     标题: 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。( j6 R% }0 a) y/ j- M6 ^6 L

! P% |% T$ g; y5 ^3 _+ C( ^1 U他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。6 b" r2 x! X0 ^$ y/ E1 g
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我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。
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看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。/ R2 j9 J9 A# e# v4 f6 B. w2 P
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他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?
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他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。
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我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。
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我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?
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他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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0 f+ Y6 h# c' D我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"5 l0 o; ^5 v( U6 \/ d+ {4 w- [

& Q( Q& k2 i/ y3 _www.xmjeep.com他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"- K; g1 W. c9 o8 ^& ]* U# e
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当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。
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: s6 l! a, E  X. u5 a真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。2 @, ]5 [# h6 p9 D2 Q

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作者: 二月花    时间: 2008-5-6 15:16

Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rainwww.xmjeep.com) P2 D( ~" @7 @1 O

5 }" l9 L! L3 X- J厦门越野联盟It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.1 p9 H7 e1 F4 B+ {" q- e, D+ K/ M6 E

  E* d/ k2 V/ wHe said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.厦门越野联盟" _' D4 T' {* e

+ k3 ?1 e' Z* o2 x: [5 NI took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.
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( o7 C/ A7 e$ y2 b( OI saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.
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6 N2 L1 h' j2 U5 GOn exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.
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The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.
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I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.3 E/ c8 b' v+ `2 O$ `
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As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.
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2 C0 z4 n0 E  [1 g9 q/ PHe replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
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6 K9 C' X7 O+ F" f: N- {6 qI was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?
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0 j# w; I2 K2 ]3 o: u  lHe smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".
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+ d8 i0 z9 _0 b$ f" \! T. i# ZI had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".www.xmjeep.com& R; l; G8 |2 [% |5 K

4 H' w7 _0 A" A' L1 m5 c" Y- }5 ~True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.
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The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.4 n  p5 O$ T9 |6 S

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作者: 纤腰    时间: 2008-5-6 15:20

好   感   人!  :)
作者: 巴西朴树    时间: 2008-5-6 17:04

还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
作者: 野熊    时间: 2008-5-7 10:51

顶起。
作者: 蜡笔小新    时间: 2008-5-9 17:58

真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。www.xmjeep.com, D: M$ r$ F% v' a% f
最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
作者: 龙飞野燕    时间: 2008-5-12 12:27

帮顶............................
作者: 舞蹈人    时间: 2008-5-13 11:04

再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
作者: 裂樱    时间: 2008-5-13 13:08

感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
作者: 小渔    时间: 2008-5-13 14:24

好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:
作者: 花儿    时间: 2008-5-16 12:50

让我对幸福有了另一种理解




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