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标题: [转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞 [打印本页]

作者: 二月花    时间: 2008-5-6 15:13     标题: 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。/ {+ f! W3 ]( s

( U  u' x+ V9 m( E  k9 d0 \他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。
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6 K3 K: D3 z, R4 O: Z0 b: X我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。
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0 n. h' u0 g4 a8 g; R& U看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。
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& o& W; b7 r# p! ]; O1 g6 H厦门越野联盟他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?/ [; A% y, H, a# O1 P* W
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他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。www.xmjeep.com2 L6 [4 d& ~$ y* l0 x4 R6 E

* ]* y2 g3 j3 \8 x$ |我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。
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! M' {8 A6 ?( F. q8 r) M我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?
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他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"
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; t4 w1 j, D# O' L' d5 J- [厦门越野联盟他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"
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当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。; B+ k  L3 @: I9 \6 Y& |6 M
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真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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0 r/ I7 e/ `* w5 v8 d1 e/ j' U7 Wwww.xmjeep.com最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
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生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
作者: 二月花    时间: 2008-5-6 15:16

Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain
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2 S, n  X2 n/ g5 h+ sIt was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.
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- }+ x9 d- n, f$ x# A% mHe said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.
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I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.
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% {6 O# G5 R9 v1 u# K6 Q2 |On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.9 q7 q% I5 s& ^1 o
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The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.
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% Y1 k. w1 w. ]; O. VI inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.! F. @$ {% E8 f* x6 l/ h' g1 ~

1 C- k( v% P5 \+ ^& b( }, G/ r- Qwww.xmjeep.comAs we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.
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He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.www.xmjeep.com# W% g: n0 d9 i
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I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?
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* K+ c: d  Q2 [; R* F- L; u; OHe smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".
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I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".
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4 y2 ?7 K$ P4 W0 @True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.
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. G' K8 W. ]9 b& JThe happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.
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0 s/ @- _5 u/ c5 v3 W2 C1 K' BLife isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.
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作者: 纤腰    时间: 2008-5-6 15:20

好   感   人!  :)
作者: 巴西朴树    时间: 2008-5-6 17:04

还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
作者: 野熊    时间: 2008-5-7 10:51

顶起。
作者: 蜡笔小新    时间: 2008-5-9 17:58

真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
  {, p4 ^- Y. C# ~* [, }www.xmjeep.com最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
作者: 龙飞野燕    时间: 2008-5-12 12:27

帮顶............................
作者: 舞蹈人    时间: 2008-5-13 11:04

再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
作者: 裂樱    时间: 2008-5-13 13:08

感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
作者: 小渔    时间: 2008-5-13 14:24

好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:
作者: 花儿    时间: 2008-5-16 12:50

让我对幸福有了另一种理解




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