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标题: [转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞 [打印本页]

作者: 二月花    时间: 2008-5-6 15:13     标题: 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。
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" W  _- i2 `$ S) {" {+ g6 _$ I  K他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。
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8 [# D1 l0 X( t我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。www.xmjeep.com+ _+ W0 N7 g8 N3 K# g3 _$ d

% q" {$ g% c$ V5 a; n2 `( P看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。# d2 w' N& |* s( ~- @; Y' [4 h

6 E" N3 K/ p1 S! i+ W* Twww.xmjeep.com他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?% G! u% C3 ?- a7 r+ i; C1 p3 E

- o  }8 f; L7 o他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。
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我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。
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; J) r: |+ e/ \6 [我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?" X+ E' u3 h# |0 D3 o! x; p6 l" x

; \9 q  Q0 E1 Y% ]他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。www.xmjeep.com  W" v0 _$ {+ C4 I6 W) V  d

1 ~2 i/ N0 f  s2 p0 W# B6 A厦门越野联盟我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"
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他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"
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当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。
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真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。" l/ Q& m+ c' m: f1 m: Y

" H! L  u: e# r7 j; U1 @1 J/ I! \最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
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生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
作者: 二月花    时间: 2008-5-6 15:16

Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain, L0 @$ f! A3 G* d5 r& D

+ E9 T+ ?8 ?% x! j% NIt was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.' ?2 B  y2 A$ Y( u, g: q% j

9 }, g& X7 L4 X& e) SHe said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.
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; {7 {4 [3 T8 m9 k: C& \( qwww.xmjeep.comI took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.3 h6 Z+ ^0 q% \0 s& Q

* ?, U. f: y7 p; }On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.+ b  [3 i) ?5 C1 C7 k( }/ T8 e

/ g- ]. O5 H' D: VThe man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.
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' q& f% \7 f6 b& {; `4 s1 @% LI inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
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) l" ]/ J: ?! M+ w* ^# ^+ q7 sAs we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.
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He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
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  q) G2 P& S0 f3 ^2 H. v/ lI was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?www.xmjeep.com0 e) f; `! b% ^: @; c

/ g# |! B! Y& s9 ^1 @: |+ zHe smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".( v: S# s  P/ J
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I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".
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True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.www.xmjeep.com; Z9 T' b1 e5 l2 a

+ q, I8 C$ ^) G7 Awww.xmjeep.comThe happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.( d* H& V& l  u0 u
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.www.xmjeep.com& J% ]9 z' R5 B
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中文由BOKANG翻译!
作者: 纤腰    时间: 2008-5-6 15:20

好   感   人!  :)
作者: 巴西朴树    时间: 2008-5-6 17:04

还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
作者: 野熊    时间: 2008-5-7 10:51

顶起。
作者: 蜡笔小新    时间: 2008-5-9 17:58

真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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作者: 龙飞野燕    时间: 2008-5-12 12:27

帮顶............................
作者: 舞蹈人    时间: 2008-5-13 11:04

再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
作者: 裂樱    时间: 2008-5-13 13:08

感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
作者: 小渔    时间: 2008-5-13 14:24

好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:
作者: 花儿    时间: 2008-5-16 12:50

让我对幸福有了另一种理解




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