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标题: [转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞 [打印本页]

作者: 二月花    时间: 2008-5-6 15:13     标题: 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。厦门越野联盟/ D+ I# ?% P+ v/ |- A4 @

1 ^# h8 V# H" p# J/ `5 ]) l他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。! o4 }2 h* `2 C2 |

6 E- `" X. |) U4 V我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。
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看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。% a  v& a3 y# O( ^" ]

* m9 ]  H) C' {他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?$ |6 o- D/ |2 f- _$ w# P$ J& f

. P# Y; Y) w$ |他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。
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1 d2 n  A  `) F我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。6 u; q/ v3 {6 Z5 V
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我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?
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他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。www.xmjeep.com' M- g# h# w& d, x7 e/ N5 I

! v+ l; a7 {: c我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"
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他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"厦门越野联盟2 Z- |5 Y1 J& t( d

5 L. G8 r, r3 i2 m当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。
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/ G# A4 ?8 D4 Y* f9 _真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
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生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
作者: 二月花    时间: 2008-5-6 15:16

Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain( |/ o: N7 S' Y% G7 p' K; m4 ?$ m

: u3 X% T  b6 L4 w* D( VIt was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.
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He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.! T1 s0 D' F! I# d

/ g( m' ]& j4 e; SI took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him., `8 d9 i" b. V$ @  i/ s

" j+ ]. t3 a5 h7 t6 J2 `I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.* X" w" j* f* v1 w) B

5 @9 a. Q, I9 H0 P5 i3 s2 k; ~www.xmjeep.comOn exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.! H! c9 Z/ m& o" K) z9 p
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The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.
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I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.厦门越野联盟# S! {  B# _2 j" [" O
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As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.
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He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
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I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?www.xmjeep.com$ ?" O( {& C$ U" l. a
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He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".
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I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".
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True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.www.xmjeep.com9 X0 m5 k2 g+ D
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The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.www.xmjeep.com) _6 O+ w2 t7 H9 e9 Y) c( Z
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.
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中文由BOKANG翻译!
作者: 纤腰    时间: 2008-5-6 15:20

好   感   人!  :)
作者: 巴西朴树    时间: 2008-5-6 17:04

还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
作者: 野熊    时间: 2008-5-7 10:51

顶起。
作者: 蜡笔小新    时间: 2008-5-9 17:58

真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。4 z$ {4 n4 p0 A6 S' r3 s  ~
最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
作者: 龙飞野燕    时间: 2008-5-12 12:27

帮顶............................
作者: 舞蹈人    时间: 2008-5-13 11:04

再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
作者: 裂樱    时间: 2008-5-13 13:08

感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
作者: 小渔    时间: 2008-5-13 14:24

好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:
作者: 花儿    时间: 2008-5-16 12:50

让我对幸福有了另一种理解




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