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标题: [转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞 [打印本页]

作者: 二月花    时间: 2008-5-6 15:13     标题: 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。www.xmjeep.com& g# d2 I/ k; C& U9 `0 w
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他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。www.xmjeep.com3 G  Z, q1 x0 M( p, L1 m$ u

" e! m9 Q2 d( n3 a6 Z0 J我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。. z' l" H% K& a

2 c( \5 L" [3 L3 {& l' \+ J3 ewww.xmjeep.com看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。
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他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?
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0 x' Z6 O3 j' x2 `9 {- D( q$ U他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。www.xmjeep.com, h" c$ U$ A, Z) C$ D' C, I0 x
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我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。2 g5 r+ l/ P/ r1 ]& b! O/ _

* F* L( j' Y5 m* L# Z我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?
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他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"厦门越野联盟1 S9 ~9 ?& x# q' y/ K. r* k

" {9 Q' S" X4 N他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"
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: U# j4 [1 r0 s8 D当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。厦门越野联盟4 ]& z7 M0 s6 q& `' i* E
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真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。8 C5 e0 q/ F1 Y  \- m; a
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生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
作者: 二月花    时间: 2008-5-6 15:16

Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain
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% N- W( Y( r- w& {It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.* b( ?9 R- G5 c0 k3 ^5 H
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He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.+ X1 N8 ?; e  ]5 I+ D

* @8 D6 H) k/ k9 D. CI took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.- [: O% u+ [" Y+ z, O3 S

) Z8 C1 I0 I5 w5 A+ R8 x" MOn exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.  A( e4 o# [4 [3 g+ H

7 n! d% q) S, p; I2 ?% c% T  C3 {! r厦门越野联盟The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.
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I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
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As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.
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He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.www.xmjeep.com1 H9 r0 a0 I; d& P: M
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I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?: O& r. C3 Y& d, C; [
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He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".
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9 W2 R  A" q" [# ]2 qI had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".www.xmjeep.com7 T# s8 T  }" o+ R& i1 H
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True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.厦门越野联盟8 S: S5 c  t! S8 j$ z

5 y& T/ L  i4 ~) b0 QThe happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.  d/ U* E4 m$ `: g  E

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作者: 纤腰    时间: 2008-5-6 15:20

好   感   人!  :)
作者: 巴西朴树    时间: 2008-5-6 17:04

还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
作者: 野熊    时间: 2008-5-7 10:51

顶起。
作者: 蜡笔小新    时间: 2008-5-9 17:58

真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。; Y( ?) n/ B4 m2 Y
最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
作者: 龙飞野燕    时间: 2008-5-12 12:27

帮顶............................
作者: 舞蹈人    时间: 2008-5-13 11:04

再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
作者: 裂樱    时间: 2008-5-13 13:08

感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
作者: 小渔    时间: 2008-5-13 14:24

好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:
作者: 花儿    时间: 2008-5-16 12:50

让我对幸福有了另一种理解




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