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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。, z& M8 H, B% J( i( ]+ L% k3 Q, p1 m
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他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。
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+ K, e- e, t7 ]4 x我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。
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看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。
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/ Q% N, _- h& a0 H厦门越野联盟他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?
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2 v4 t' L- S& \7 ^2 [$ ?他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。
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  F$ W7 y# u' B# p0 f, _我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。
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我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?
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他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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+ g) K# ?) i( `4 @$ g3 X! x厦门越野联盟我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?": ?0 P, z# x7 t% q  S# ?, d

9 j% ^7 U- C6 W. \) D6 m3 C厦门越野联盟他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"厦门越野联盟5 _: Q0 Z$ l, Y! ^4 d
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当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。2 S4 ]8 _( N8 b0 @  o7 L

( @) j7 o. s) ?5 v2 r; C真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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' S6 f7 e, f6 y2 ?0 Y& L4 z厦门越野联盟最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。1 m! B& z* n/ _
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生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
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  • 乐乐儿 越野币 +3 我很赞同 2008-5-10 12:45

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain
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It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.
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! R( ?# b) d& ?7 \. W4 {www.xmjeep.comHe said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.
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9 {$ m5 B8 F$ M4 T9 _+ O2 f( bI took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.
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% Y1 R9 }: [" A9 K! P- {厦门越野联盟On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.
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3 g* U8 c4 ?$ M$ E7 oThe man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.
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I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
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As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.www.xmjeep.com0 I4 [% x8 V! S& {. K+ R
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He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
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9 V  }6 G" |/ f* l3 YI was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?
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He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".
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; g+ ]; V' _& M6 HI had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".2 ?: \( ?5 E3 v" k, i3 V
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True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.www.xmjeep.com1 p% s& V. S. O5 W& ?3 D" j1 E$ M

0 F* u5 x. G- ^0 k9 o7 j( C  s厦门越野联盟The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.厦门越野联盟% p4 Y% l/ S0 j* \" G5 r

6 w# x. K1 J9 q6 @  h) dLife isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.www.xmjeep.com/ ?. o1 o! D  `) P: G

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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
$ l4 Q& ]) Z9 U# D' p1 j最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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