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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。
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他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。; o; k+ a. g9 t3 I# q

4 [' [& r, F( qwww.xmjeep.com我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。
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看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。8 z$ x. f( v9 ]& m. F

+ g) J# H$ V2 u+ K' M, O厦门越野联盟他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?厦门越野联盟. b0 B: {& l/ B4 v7 Y: e0 q3 P

& t. e% B' [' B5 f他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。
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我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。
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我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?
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+ ~9 B# J4 Y- z6 ^www.xmjeep.com他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"www.xmjeep.com- {8 e5 b; o1 l
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他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"3 G) @/ u! {- u3 h% B/ z

: \" X, `5 [3 F9 q当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。
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8 c+ ?7 S) H+ N) Vwww.xmjeep.com真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。6 m; ]# Q0 s* k: Y8 {3 n& }" R

% R( S/ x6 G$ J/ h最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
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生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
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  • 乐乐儿 越野币 +3 我很赞同 2008-5-10 12:45

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain: N0 Y' w$ w* ~

, v/ |% }* W1 @5 bIt was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.1 d6 J0 n: }& A/ z/ k

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$ l' d2 m! ~2 C0 K/ VI took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.7 o# C2 E- |$ q; ^4 W) j- ^
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.厦门越野联盟( g' u  n' \# \2 |  J( f& S8 D
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On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.
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The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.
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( r7 P/ i# x3 j7 z7 EI inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
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As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.
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5 c: @  ^7 [' F/ }1 A6 L, AHe replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.& X: V" P4 Y: ~# I9 M' S

: i" L$ L/ F+ i, Q3 n; W6 B# }厦门越野联盟I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?
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He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".
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I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".
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$ A1 f7 U% g/ V) qwww.xmjeep.comTrue love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.厦门越野联盟) ^* A9 D7 n8 ]% f% r

& g/ g& P! a1 w& G4 W, l+ \The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.
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2 p: b7 {) Y8 s; L9 p, W  z厦门越野联盟Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.1 r% u4 ?1 ?% y6 O7 M
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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。& e( {6 P" J+ W. f/ j6 P4 Y
最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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