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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。
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他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。
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* y) y; d! }6 _/ ?% O3 q3 a  K我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。www.xmjeep.com2 B1 w0 `+ y* v, s; n3 Z- D

5 T- m7 S1 r1 K' q$ a5 a看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。+ s) Z! Q1 ~0 Z4 j: L( M8 I
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他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?* v/ \7 T. d3 J' ^

& {* k7 H& _( L0 t他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。
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我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。
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我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?( t$ j* `+ T: n
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他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。www.xmjeep.com6 b7 V/ ?4 X  q7 S: m- O& H
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我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"
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他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"' `6 ?; ~/ ?1 A
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当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。& A  t/ v$ H2 h" f/ O, [/ y
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真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。厦门越野联盟$ P4 Y$ E  W9 W/ y! p) D" j1 s7 M' f2 \

: E4 ^& D/ C( q' M, p1 m3 dwww.xmjeep.com最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。厦门越野联盟" Z3 u# x- W1 w6 g6 n

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  • 乐乐儿 越野币 +3 我很赞同 2008-5-10 12:45

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain
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It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.
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" J) C& C. z1 ~He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.1 C. T- O9 A# k$ w
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I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.www.xmjeep.com" q6 n' `3 L2 ]8 z) C; `1 i% M
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.
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* S! l* j3 k3 b9 ]" H厦门越野联盟On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.
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$ i! _- m" Y/ L$ xThe man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.
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I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
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As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.; H2 ^0 S# b5 d, S& l( f2 T

  V/ j8 C8 q, ^( B  U! q# d- l) pHe replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.厦门越野联盟# m& a; a' N" @: E4 j

# L5 V3 b6 b" \I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?/ {+ e5 P* w3 W8 L  F
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He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".
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6 f; F- T, v4 HI had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".
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True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.厦门越野联盟0 a) {- u1 J' ]/ Q4 b

# B8 z! c0 R0 Ewww.xmjeep.comThe happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.
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$ E  ]4 }" Z/ X# |& uwww.xmjeep.comLife isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.
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中文由BOKANG翻译!

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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。www.xmjeep.com5 U3 F, X& S: b" s$ v, l4 L
最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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