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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。
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* p7 ^$ U: W# V2 V他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。& j) m- q( |% S# I7 Q4 B# E# Q& O

& i* E+ Y0 s' L我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。厦门越野联盟# z8 F4 }4 ]1 \2 M5 w1 `, H. B5 |

$ b% y' Y! i2 ~+ J' `6 k2 Q; x: Z; P看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。
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他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?厦门越野联盟3 Y2 ]  l2 W6 \$ b' f

$ Z/ |# i/ n# H3 ^6 v/ ]5 x" W5 H他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。
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  V$ k! q: R0 K8 K9 y我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。9 m+ x' T, q" O" [
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我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?
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他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"
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+ ^$ c6 U+ x! x  p# r% Z' N  @他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"厦门越野联盟3 T% t3 `  W$ d8 T; R6 P; X+ m
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当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。
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真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。5 H# z  d/ h# k  `
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最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。% B4 R% |  L7 y

' k$ d6 i3 _% m# J生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
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  • 乐乐儿 越野币 +3 我很赞同 2008-5-10 12:45

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain
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$ S. ~; @) r: W: {. f6 C3 rIt was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.
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He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.
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. t. P( D1 V9 wI took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.厦门越野联盟" k4 w" X0 @: K6 T; ]

8 N: K0 Q% l! A: w! bI saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.www.xmjeep.com) b8 ?( v, {/ [2 `8 N

3 A4 s8 n  @+ b" X1 G" Q8 U0 mOn exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.$ T; o+ E/ \$ \! J! p0 z, F
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The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.
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8 M# b" D) X1 L, NI inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.1 p. @. e# j# x# ?1 M: k* ?
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As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.
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He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.厦门越野联盟6 C; X9 F& [  l5 J  d

: s2 r  B4 o6 \3 }3 X- fwww.xmjeep.comI was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?  p4 V; i6 K8 {1 Y9 d

! s) S1 ?+ }' y% YHe smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".. v7 m& S4 M6 o) g) L
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I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".; h9 z6 t! |! h7 a

, B  S' f( H; m* h/ V厦门越野联盟True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.) \2 o4 H+ F: Z! h9 F6 e
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The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.www.xmjeep.com! O& n  P5 @1 h% t" Q

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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。1 r8 L6 t* s" N- [3 `
最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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