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生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。
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我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。
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. H2 O: A3 N5 x/ J% B3 V厦门越野联盟看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。
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他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?5 C% I% p9 V: J. |  @1 }
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他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。  c$ {. H; Y. O" d! i1 ~0 A
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我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。& q3 F& Q$ H8 A9 F- f
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我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?
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4 `8 [0 W2 o4 k6 D1 T/ \' P- `厦门越野联盟他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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, r% o2 N- P" r0 \厦门越野联盟我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"
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$ V* |$ M' j  q1 u( x他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"
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% Q: \: X1 a$ J% B/ E' twww.xmjeep.com当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。厦门越野联盟- L) H. a9 H6 N, m/ G4 c
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真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。www.xmjeep.com- m5 x+ L/ \! H8 l

5 S0 R/ p, N) v3 [4 F2 V9 [2 ?厦门越野联盟最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
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  • 乐乐儿 越野币 +3 我很赞同 2008-5-10 12:45

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain2 o" q) h0 s1 W
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It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.
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# Z  N# s% q- ^He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.www.xmjeep.com- B& Z' {, l' y- p4 C: }( k
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I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.厦门越野联盟  p/ |4 o0 V# U
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On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.www.xmjeep.com0 y0 G) }% p& n0 A, E& v1 k9 Q
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The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.厦门越野联盟) E; ^% J/ c( S
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I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.www.xmjeep.com+ |8 v/ M: |# O5 ^- z( C7 t: ?5 e
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As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.厦门越野联盟' Q* M1 I. _  _" o* V

1 n5 X7 k2 z6 M. ?, {He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.www.xmjeep.com4 G7 ~5 w4 [& ~, i  y
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I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?
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# Q1 v% W% v. JHe smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".
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7 ^9 R# w- T" E6 rI had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".
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* _, n  {$ t; E7 M* F) C' FTrue love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.www.xmjeep.com4 i- K$ [1 b, q3 R3 K

9 }% A6 |% I$ k4 EThe happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.www.xmjeep.com7 ?# Y' H6 _( }) s$ @
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.
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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
3 ~8 _* j. W3 t, G% Q: e7 P: C最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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