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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。, C1 @4 b) a# Z# _# b0 @5 D0 r
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他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。. W8 a, Y! O) y! [; o
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我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。
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& }9 q6 M! @" V7 Y; E看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。
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! C: g* E7 n+ ~; f: i7 R& F厦门越野联盟他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?
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他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。
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1 v) H* V9 a- a4 N$ k# n  p* x我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。www.xmjeep.com$ E- q( K0 e$ Z
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我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?; j# H2 j1 `! z

$ q" f* p( q; w0 x6 k! cwww.xmjeep.com他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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# G  y( N" b, d  P/ H厦门越野联盟我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"
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3 W4 s6 u6 w, ]3 j& f5 G他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"
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当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。
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真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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; l: t6 k5 z3 o- L$ v2 v& C7 k, |最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。www.xmjeep.com! O" F0 ?$ j2 @6 y1 x4 y% {/ @% P& g
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生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
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  • 乐乐儿 越野币 +3 我很赞同 2008-5-10 12:45

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rainwww.xmjeep.com4 C. M! p5 |! D3 N6 E

, h, c  C- t( P$ C+ b  S厦门越野联盟It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.www.xmjeep.com" V: M. P/ n$ x2 S) E. d8 j; w

% k. j6 O+ k: _0 o# H1 N: U$ lHe said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.
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3 a$ s* [: T0 H! D( VI took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.
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  h( u' T  J$ L% `4 u* VOn exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.
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! C$ [+ g) }; G& |www.xmjeep.comThe man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.
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I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
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: E. |& O. x( \' K, l0 _2 p; mAs we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.2 T1 Q5 p+ B+ O
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He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
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/ X4 N0 f' ~2 ^  GI was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?
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He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".7 D: S1 ~7 n' z- y& O3 r0 j+ W
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I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".: X3 W. V& _% [( t
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True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.www.xmjeep.com- h* l; j; {2 G. a1 `6 N

* {) o$ a* J( F% ]" VThe happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.
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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。www.xmjeep.com/ }' y+ W1 V( M) ?' n' Z
最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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