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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。
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' \' D$ K5 E- c7 B  b2 f他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。
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我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。0 X2 q$ C; e7 K1 H' C. O$ R# |
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看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。, l2 G, F5 C) O2 l2 H
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他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?
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他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。3 A  X: M. ^2 G% E5 a8 y$ o6 D# ~
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我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。
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我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?! b$ _6 o7 w' D/ j$ ?2 G

3 w' n% t( n6 y! q+ H他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"厦门越野联盟7 K9 k5 r* K0 D) `* C
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他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"
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& Z" K, S4 v; D$ H& _& k) B/ v0 O当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。8 i$ n. `, a8 t7 P- z; j" g

& [3 L" M0 s/ U2 M. Q真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。www.xmjeep.com$ k2 n. W9 i& L1 o
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最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
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生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
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  • 乐乐儿 越野币 +3 我很赞同 2008-5-10 12:45

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain+ v8 T8 b! [# O  w6 ?) L) E9 C
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It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.4 H# B) W: ~2 H, ^' R6 r
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He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.厦门越野联盟. G, I5 G2 ~3 {- g
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I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.6 l% y* w5 V! v

6 B! m( Z' ?* P2 ]% I3 [www.xmjeep.comI saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.厦门越野联盟) |. E3 N6 u8 A9 I6 Q

4 n3 m# @7 X6 a0 i6 i2 wOn exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.厦门越野联盟) x& A4 _  R8 t) b* k+ g1 k. `- @. F
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The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife./ D* z' |5 q7 r  A9 a2 q

! q6 |* z1 f, Y5 j  Hwww.xmjeep.comI inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
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# e- g4 q; ?$ J9 l/ e$ U% E* TAs we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.
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+ Y. i( G% V: }+ o! x- s& ~He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
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I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?4 U+ `8 f/ X; L. t3 x

3 N$ r$ n! P9 J% R+ QHe smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".
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6 e4 M7 R: g$ }- vwww.xmjeep.comI had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".
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True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.1 P& Q; Q* j- {3 D/ o

9 x; }; M* N5 w& W, K; iThe happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.' n7 {, q' k1 q7 B) Y. A
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.厦门越野联盟( q9 _% K9 X9 _" S$ }9 r
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中文由BOKANG翻译!

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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。( t4 U& W7 `  G( b
最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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