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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。
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他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。) N: A) z/ [# ]8 y; y2 Z( c( \. K

( V+ E9 v- e; l0 m我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。
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看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。www.xmjeep.com: V5 R) ~' c* B& u/ s' V# V
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他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?厦门越野联盟6 y! P$ Q+ ^6 f! R0 v5 F& i9 @$ }
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他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。
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  L6 L2 N9 O( J0 r我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。
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1 n6 K0 n5 j4 |2 \+ c( W. {我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?% X$ s5 N+ T  j# S" I
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他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。% b, K! d; a" W

' N4 v+ ]3 Z3 u# l6 l* w6 z我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"
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# J8 J7 |% S+ c, X/ }他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"
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: x4 k2 O- ?8 c. ]) t当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。
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真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。3 c1 |  p1 E- g  N' m2 F, D
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最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
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生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain
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It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.厦门越野联盟1 X+ j) @8 E. S- A9 N5 N5 @
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He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.
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# ^& F$ u0 @5 LI took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.厦门越野联盟; ]0 E4 K0 Y" N1 F, k
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On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.' p) w( z7 v* D9 P$ ]
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The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.
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) i1 I" b* Y. P2 ]& O8 Q" ^I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
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) Y8 c; Q/ o+ JAs we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.; B0 J" f% s& u/ `7 e. T

; q& U+ e+ U6 c  K$ b# c. j( T! }厦门越野联盟He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
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2 w3 X9 }6 D# t, r0 @I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?
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! u0 |1 x2 z  Vwww.xmjeep.comHe smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".
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" H0 u  s  K" J) w( v3 sI had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".
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True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.; A2 q! G. S5 ]/ `: e2 w
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The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.
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中文由BOKANG翻译!

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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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