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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。
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- C$ Y; f# V5 m厦门越野联盟他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。
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1 s. _6 D' Y# V, ]9 s+ e厦门越野联盟我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。
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3 ~% L) C6 D1 m: D& bwww.xmjeep.com看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。
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他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?' T6 S8 _% `1 B4 O( w9 {/ d

/ V) `4 L- b8 R  X6 I他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。www.xmjeep.com2 q; n8 N9 a; _8 F* x) k: y# c
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我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。
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我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?
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他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。' O/ K9 n8 ]" \3 y& `( g, v

1 b/ T# y1 V" h# V& y# s* ]我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"& \+ I# R  ?  R: E: L2 V
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他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"8 v: G2 R' [* \( x9 n

! \* s/ K2 j+ G+ P3 N2 B当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。
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真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。www.xmjeep.com, Q2 o3 _. a, d5 v

9 ?2 I6 B" L. F7 u; d/ S  y最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。厦门越野联盟3 h0 K9 ~3 S6 v& Q( Q  V1 _& A: ~
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生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain
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It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.
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He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.
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I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.
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: M+ R+ d3 M* _7 @& s0 j( {2 M$ WI saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.
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On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.
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The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.3 x: r: e: q$ [
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I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
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% H- W" k" C5 v1 z- k) X" g' }www.xmjeep.comAs we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.
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) U8 \7 C- M. q, I$ }  U, rHe replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.. a( g/ x0 y/ y  L- H

0 x0 V" V$ L- X/ [I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?
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He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".4 ^0 |  D1 ~4 l$ R4 C, Y9 Z

- v5 y; c1 y& e6 d3 zI had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".www.xmjeep.com2 I( o9 a: I3 ]. N  S1 @/ b

9 ~& x) l8 h7 Q: l4 ZTrue love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.www.xmjeep.com. S- S- `3 T# S7 l7 D

7 H$ N# L9 ?! Wwww.xmjeep.comThe happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.厦门越野联盟3 u2 G9 q' c. [5 i) c$ D
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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
1 H7 V) E# W3 v/ ?9 w最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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