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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。: t3 ~; ?% P# ~9 ~+ m! s
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他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。www.xmjeep.com/ H8 k% C% ^9 X3 N' \! X
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我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。www.xmjeep.com" |* W* B& E) _8 w
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看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。. _- `8 Z3 E) h! B& u/ f, `8 u7 O, B
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他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?
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' z, ~& R5 k- X: N/ o0 g& A他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。
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我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。www.xmjeep.com, l/ c; g( j1 X- y

* k1 }: e( {6 t2 @- L6 n" Q我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?. Q5 Z% t" A9 B" y7 U
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他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"
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他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"
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当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。
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真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。厦门越野联盟$ W0 k: e8 `1 ?9 N

2 X2 `6 ?& ?/ mwww.xmjeep.com最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
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  • 乐乐儿 越野币 +3 我很赞同 2008-5-10 12:45

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rainwww.xmjeep.com: {: ?8 P2 u+ L, `5 W  ^
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It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.
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4 N/ d  u9 ~% i7 RHe said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.+ n" ?) u$ s  G; [

5 h: d' z3 z; u- s& C( Q! ]I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.
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# Z5 r0 m: M& L& H" |I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.6 m  h6 }: Z" _6 T. p9 G4 T4 F

& ^0 U7 K1 S1 d; F9 v( B' U+ fOn exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.www.xmjeep.com- d9 e0 L. ?4 e% C6 J9 X) s  y

- g& m. x. A# V* }www.xmjeep.comThe man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.( c2 F. ^( K3 E" Y% \

: B( Q* G, C% V8 B- j3 i7 g厦门越野联盟I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.3 n5 @0 h+ `2 [4 U( {
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As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.www.xmjeep.com& Q: }7 E/ k0 P, n) L
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He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
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I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?
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, x7 N- R1 v1 K7 p3 r- o1 G0 cHe smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".' i* G. s* J' W+ B2 {6 ?
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I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".4 G  V& m4 a+ ]# l) R  b3 {

$ n" M7 F- r* S7 h% J$ u8 kwww.xmjeep.comTrue love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.
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The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.
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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。厦门越野联盟3 O. ]9 |! O& r6 o0 N! N
最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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