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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。
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他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。
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我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。www.xmjeep.com9 I2 R; }  e) v& J! d

( d9 V6 q6 ^2 h, o& W1 H  ^厦门越野联盟看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。厦门越野联盟9 u  N+ |* S& ]3 F  l1 x

. F% d) C! Z1 s8 P厦门越野联盟他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?
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  H% s* l3 o0 z4 u4 N8 H# |+ N他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。+ K  B8 K6 k( D# [% k9 o
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我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。
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; _* |! a. ]& h; E5 a我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?
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7 m& _" S, ]9 }( `* z2 C厦门越野联盟他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"
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他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"
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当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。厦门越野联盟. P# Q- E/ _$ |. P. @* {+ y

+ \! R" c& o7 Q; T% Y$ M厦门越野联盟真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。厦门越野联盟! R) B: |9 _4 A4 \- e/ r; j
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生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
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  • 乐乐儿 越野币 +3 我很赞同 2008-5-10 12:45

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain
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It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.www.xmjeep.com9 i2 l, B9 N  J% R
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He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.3 p& w7 n1 x+ b, B& A

$ J% I& Z6 I% v" jI took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.* a2 l9 Z: O* E# T0 X

+ w" K! r* \7 H/ G5 q+ S8 D  J厦门越野联盟On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.
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The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.! U) f, @. a" S: v* v% q( d* }, m

5 O, \( K+ j) I( [4 D& o厦门越野联盟I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.www.xmjeep.com- X: K* Q$ U* L4 n! Q( S; Q1 O: M

( i2 \" S& q! C& ZAs we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.
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He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
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7 Y2 F& o* p5 Y5 ]4 S4 iI was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?
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$ ]: F& W1 y/ a" W/ d9 a" n! LHe smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".
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I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".
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8 k% N5 j# w: p1 I: h厦门越野联盟True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.www.xmjeep.com+ h  f" }5 t9 C9 d) X5 G1 |
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The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.1 W4 ?+ V  {' |, ]5 |, T

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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。厦门越野联盟0 s0 k+ e1 s0 b4 ^
最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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