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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。( r2 A, n+ o; ~$ I2 I

& ?$ F0 e) B7 g4 J/ Z% |他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。
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我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。$ W# Q4 v1 w9 v+ A' N& S- V' w
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看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。厦门越野联盟7 V! n! j) e/ m6 y
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他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?
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他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。厦门越野联盟! V1 v; c% L/ P8 e

8 K7 A: \" N$ B/ |8 h; U% Z( w8 v我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。www.xmjeep.com+ [; b; p0 a; n6 N6 E9 }

2 @6 @8 D! a7 u% G7 T. G* D1 v3 D我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?厦门越野联盟, S/ T3 h5 z( i* h

% s; i5 }# N8 l$ p  J  \9 N: u他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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8 J5 A% C/ ^& E我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"0 ]( ]$ }- e; N1 A* c

, D( y7 k+ R, Y/ k1 Z& ]厦门越野联盟他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"; \5 a: c* @( D$ ]6 {. K

& P* ^: ?3 y/ {7 Y5 q! E: f当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。' G+ s0 F: N7 H" L

: z: ~# K' P6 C* Y6 M' y, ~真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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1 M+ n$ H( P6 {/ Y( w1 j/ ]生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
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  • 乐乐儿 越野币 +3 我很赞同 2008-5-10 12:45

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain# B4 q$ w- E5 Y& E" a

/ U6 A- [7 y+ K9 E3 l4 vIt was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.
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. ?% b1 y$ P/ C  i6 ]8 p4 o8 \www.xmjeep.comHe said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.
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I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.
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2 S. R8 q8 T+ }1 i8 E厦门越野联盟On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.
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/ d$ ~! P$ [! t; a% C" d" D厦门越野联盟The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.厦门越野联盟# E$ R" r; B4 l
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I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
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! I6 w3 e* q9 Q/ y0 JAs we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.
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He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
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, X. V, E6 a' nI was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?www.xmjeep.com1 d3 I# g' t& g5 z* Y; h

1 o  I9 e: }0 G% T) `" UHe smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".  k6 |, p8 L) I

% S1 }! [, o, W% Y1 X  o厦门越野联盟I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".9 C7 c1 I+ L' S/ Z# k: _5 w

4 X/ [7 T2 A* c* ~- R# \True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.
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/ X6 ~+ _7 n# l7 U$ L* x厦门越野联盟The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.& T) j# H  `0 |9 R  V( I
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.
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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
1 E& C+ n, |0 E4 Z5 ?最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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