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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。7 E" L! k, Z3 X- `( Q9 @( {

+ ]4 }: X4 r/ u1 ~2 P他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。# q3 D7 O% i4 o' ^' g9 d
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我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。# ]& F' a% K) E# j. Y  u
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看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。厦门越野联盟9 V; Q# `4 |( T* _+ p

, H6 P, K) A5 j) a. b厦门越野联盟他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?厦门越野联盟0 B+ h: o  a8 O$ c
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他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。3 n9 q: Z& t  s+ I# T; T
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我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。
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我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?$ l* o' `4 ~) O

# f+ V4 s7 G% G8 ?: |! K5 H/ o厦门越野联盟他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。6 D$ w) F  ^' V3 e; ?" c
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我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"
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他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"
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当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。3 f& d: \7 d8 {% Z, a
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真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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  • 乐乐儿 越野币 +3 我很赞同 2008-5-10 12:45

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain, Q# T! x2 L5 L9 c/ M: u

4 Q6 y  j' [/ B* l4 V; O5 eIt was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.  |' X- D0 F( q( A+ L) M+ n

' d" S3 |, m6 }, G0 V) Z, F厦门越野联盟He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.
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! N5 |( k( f7 x2 II took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.厦门越野联盟" ?. C* ~7 M0 m/ r% ~3 |/ H' J" U
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.
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On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.
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* n& o* ~" I5 xThe man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.
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I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
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As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late./ m: Q9 N' r1 o8 Y/ @+ I% L

/ K0 X/ c& ~4 |* dHe replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
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# |1 d& `7 z# h' S. K+ eI was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?
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' o. V2 @+ |7 V' N$ }He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".
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% N* I3 k* Q; Q5 d2 F! _) QI had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".
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True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.
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The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.6 w' ~4 ?& P2 ^3 n& W
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.
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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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