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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。
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* L/ R4 W' j+ Y1 O/ Y他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。: A" w( C" G5 l7 h! A
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我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。
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看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。7 X2 v$ C& F# S9 C* Q1 e2 |1 `  y
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他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?
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' m+ G! y  D" s- A4 {& D) fwww.xmjeep.com他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。
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. e0 [8 W6 t6 T! x我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。
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6 l" ?3 N+ O0 C: ~) g; g我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?
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+ ^/ S, @1 B$ ~- Z. d厦门越野联盟他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。厦门越野联盟$ v# j# ?0 h, Y* [: ]6 y( o- t

( M- O' c) I( R8 c1 Q! F( U我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"0 I6 ?# _- C$ y& ^; h

- }) }- L0 C! |- p( A- y, @- V他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"
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! s2 ]7 p0 {; P- R5 x厦门越野联盟当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。
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: ~1 t% I5 h  l; ^" p真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。6 h% T. W+ _5 S8 C

4 C" O9 t; G. D2 U* j最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
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生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
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  • 乐乐儿 越野币 +3 我很赞同 2008-5-10 12:45

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain  ]; x! f8 S# S, s1 J( ]

. F- b0 ?. Z$ BIt was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.www.xmjeep.com* v( H4 }" S8 i# b1 z& U

1 c1 r; w- I5 O/ ?1 g( n, N8 mHe said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.
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9 u, s6 c5 d/ S  f2 [, \I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.www.xmjeep.com  [1 ~5 |1 d3 p" n: @. }* ]! R  A
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.2 M" J: Z1 C7 c2 f; A8 x

7 ~/ l- y; \9 z* E, M7 _www.xmjeep.comOn exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.
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The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.
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- T* g: ]# w6 y! Q0 M/ w6 @www.xmjeep.comI inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.厦门越野联盟7 H! \, Y, L/ ^0 d' v
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As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.# x( o( i# n7 [3 e& h+ z( v
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He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
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7 W3 Z6 k& y% K( Ywww.xmjeep.comI was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?! d5 U: w- K: S% n
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He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".
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I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".
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True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.
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The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.厦门越野联盟- R0 M0 C0 H+ X" T
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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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