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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。, P  V6 e+ m" K4 p, |
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他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。) s$ E" M% ?  O) S0 g

. ~) J1 }8 ^. r; [2 _我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。www.xmjeep.com0 `  {) M2 p! a: C9 F" R+ c

* Z% w8 X1 S) f* u" c+ X! n2 h3 I1 y看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。
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他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?
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8 H3 }1 A9 C$ t! X; S) Fwww.xmjeep.com他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。) m9 ?, t, u' |! d9 S

2 w+ f7 |& m+ R8 g, }5 H我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。
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% R# g1 ]0 m0 j3 u7 u我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?厦门越野联盟: l8 X+ K3 t# E* G0 z3 `

5 X: m* j4 S0 z# B- B" r5 c. m厦门越野联盟他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。3 q! G( `5 d8 Y2 M9 j% w
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我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"
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他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"
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/ U7 T6 M5 A; H$ z' D  y当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。9 h9 R8 M6 q( v% Z
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真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。: ~# {7 x8 z; T; U$ |& s

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  • 乐乐儿 越野币 +3 我很赞同 2008-5-10 12:45

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain/ h6 @% P7 h0 p, k9 g: m( W/ l1 i
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It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.厦门越野联盟4 B- g2 S8 w# ?! [: j4 U
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He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.厦门越野联盟; E9 M/ w4 {+ @6 K+ N( a
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I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.2 t* Z' y* n" s, w" V
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.
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  x. p5 ^$ N$ W* \$ ?On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.
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The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.厦门越野联盟2 n$ i! J7 {5 H
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I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
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As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.) s2 j2 U# ^6 b6 V3 \
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He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
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I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?
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He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".厦门越野联盟8 J, G9 e$ z7 ?8 O" o6 V6 \1 [

! w- e$ m# v' T) i3 |* k1 Cwww.xmjeep.comI had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".- z  P, Q5 W/ e9 W3 l5 g
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True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.$ Q# Q3 V4 ~- ]4 K
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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
7 R) ^- g" M' U  N最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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