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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。
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他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。www.xmjeep.com  a" D% ]# {# Q: x- w$ e: h9 V' Y
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我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。8 Y# c* ^, ~% ^3 E( m

: ]: {+ i6 ]0 Y) x看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。/ s; C$ Z! }7 T% b: G) j

, P, |, F: q  p6 s/ }他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?
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他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。7 \( p, G* v" m$ N9 r. y- V

' D2 \& z, a4 w( o* G) a8 G4 f我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。
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: ]# n8 \5 i& C/ J$ h; x我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?. M! [) \6 V4 J) f

' o& }" n7 u3 ?5 {9 h& H. E7 k他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"
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他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"0 o6 ~  @9 t) \- M1 {! l

" E6 H% l2 P% q) m+ i- ^, l/ v+ U3 Q当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。www.xmjeep.com6 Z! C' ~1 b3 B" x& T) A
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真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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* H4 n4 _2 ]1 W5 l' h% L  f最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
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  • 乐乐儿 越野币 +3 我很赞同 2008-5-10 12:45

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain, k$ ?! _. h) N2 K; Y' B2 e' @% p

' T; A$ b+ V6 i0 H$ B8 X3 iIt was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.
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: y' H" F5 a: c/ c  L/ ?www.xmjeep.comHe said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.www.xmjeep.com# e; R6 W  L% g

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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.& ^8 }: ~2 P8 W5 |  g
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On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.# _$ r, ~' u. z6 ?; m: u$ X# p

/ P. D2 C7 B  y/ Gwww.xmjeep.comThe man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.: W( M: S: ?) M3 n8 W7 C' Y
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I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease., z# k* r* P5 b0 u$ K1 X

; ~3 J; G. l& i; {As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.
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' Q: U# G2 I( F+ g( \He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.www.xmjeep.com* E3 k. V: F% d% C7 x2 E

$ h4 o, X3 u# MI was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?厦门越野联盟/ ]' q9 }" T6 N' X3 Y- C4 ^

- n, f$ n7 l9 y( Z/ R- oHe smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".厦门越野联盟* \( N! K# u7 j& l

0 _, _, B& [4 a% L  c; mI had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".
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True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.9 T0 i6 @$ f0 k% w" ]
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The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.9 W* ^% f& s# m* }1 h

6 U6 Z4 B: Q" W/ zLife isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.9 o/ x& q! G5 f' ~2 g  y- R4 i
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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
! A' i# \& m3 I最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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