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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。
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) i7 J8 Y* i% L/ w! r他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。厦门越野联盟' l$ F; M' G# [" Z! X6 d. ]) w

0 A  e# Q! }# w0 M: X我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。
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+ U" K; w& j+ S1 Swww.xmjeep.com看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。
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3 m6 D8 k; t! z; a5 {- N厦门越野联盟他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?  {( l# c. j2 _% V  O7 Z
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他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。
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  q1 n% R# D$ O5 }! u我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。: U% ~/ U; u) U7 w0 U

4 L- W( R$ c/ H4 [我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?厦门越野联盟. E' n* R( c* R* M/ M) x/ w. H- s

4 y5 L; m! X- [2 f/ K% b5 }2 R3 T2 k他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"" f! n2 O$ u. [& }/ m0 O( I6 \7 [
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他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"
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1 Q* a. q! ~3 w4 U/ }4 y8 |- C当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。厦门越野联盟1 P3 s, u# Q  r

3 J# c$ }5 a7 N! Q; ?) U真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。5 Q0 t$ o, f4 F
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最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
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生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain
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It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.7 R& v; A$ ~8 c1 C9 ^, L
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He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.厦门越野联盟2 D1 t( q( s% x3 d
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I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.' W$ P# j2 e' n. ^3 ?7 x) E

, P' Y) q( N' g- F! T6 Q! G6 vI saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.
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; r' n8 o$ b; s3 x$ YOn exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.厦门越野联盟0 ^9 a/ W3 x$ a% H/ a

. Y: j6 n1 g# @% e+ e5 r: fThe man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.
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9 G  ^+ P8 f; @8 S6 o& lI inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.www.xmjeep.com8 l0 b& Z) n" X$ L
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As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.
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) a& N- i) U9 O5 e* K% LHe replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.. l" m! I9 N4 m/ r9 F

3 A( v$ f  x$ ZI was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?www.xmjeep.com+ V3 ?- F/ d5 T/ }4 G7 k

1 g2 f9 L# W2 u, R1 vHe smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".
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( ]( i  S) P; y# H7 X7 jTrue love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.厦门越野联盟$ f3 [: }6 [+ b8 B" u
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+ b8 h5 d1 ]+ x* i厦门越野联盟Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.
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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。www.xmjeep.com: ^6 u: W1 `9 u( e8 e* G" L
最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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