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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。
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- \0 j9 q. [. @# p0 G5 J4 x他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。
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我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。8 `& W+ k9 j+ _5 e
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看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。
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他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?& u) d3 |% X5 K) v* j
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他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。
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- `) O# D! W5 P( h  V1 S我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。
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我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?+ b! a4 l4 ~' V! G7 t1 I' P/ T0 I

8 X5 s5 Y# G" T  [他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。www.xmjeep.com2 u$ w- Z2 p) {2 v- f

4 v% W/ R' a! g8 y9 w1 }我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"- v5 T4 M. k5 ~
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他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"
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4 @$ v# \0 ~8 z! d& s2 zwww.xmjeep.com当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。厦门越野联盟/ C) F# M! X+ _* E7 Z$ Y

$ l9 c! y9 L! K厦门越野联盟真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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0 J1 x6 w. ?3 T% _  z生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
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  • 乐乐儿 越野币 +3 我很赞同 2008-5-10 12:45

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rainwww.xmjeep.com% w. b! q$ i4 G, c( d7 R
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It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.
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He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.
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5 p. h2 ]$ q7 R; M5 z1 SI took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.www.xmjeep.com% K+ H0 {$ ?9 X
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On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.www.xmjeep.com5 V' @/ R% ^4 z# [$ `
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The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.: m1 n5 w" T0 F* t/ e1 ~

! g" [% _. r* t% D; w) @* G  Awww.xmjeep.comI inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.www.xmjeep.com4 `+ f$ L8 `! u
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As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.2 R. \4 \' v5 m7 ^# p( H( S

/ h1 {6 n1 D1 m; j, F, owww.xmjeep.comHe replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
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I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?5 ^( u1 p5 l! s; j# P* ?0 i. ?

6 J1 m% Y) n- d* n. V5 o0 @He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".
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I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".
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5 |) o1 W, d3 FTrue love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.$ ?6 }& |' S2 w9 E% H" O9 Q& y

( e9 c' y' ?" [厦门越野联盟The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.! z1 s8 |# S: t# \- D, h9 o
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.
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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。厦门越野联盟3 u5 I0 s$ W$ e, f
最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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