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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。  I! s- v* ?2 b2 g, _0 L5 o' s0 n

5 a% Y# F0 P* c他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。www.xmjeep.com% m! Y5 b9 x- j7 J" o, C9 x

' S3 e5 h$ Y+ t* a% l' |, [* \6 M我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。www.xmjeep.com$ ~+ V  t# S- R' c, L2 a
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看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。9 g. ]4 J3 U5 K

- Q+ O/ c2 d/ [3 r% m8 v他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?# U, }8 V+ c% o: l1 v

8 Y" a7 n" `+ b) k! a9 B$ E他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。
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我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。
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/ a2 g- e6 [& [. C' _厦门越野联盟我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?
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1 g& P) s$ I! D, t% ]他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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- F+ _! W. u* }& q) y7 {6 F我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"
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他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"9 _2 k  U, d* k) d
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当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。
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' C- Z0 [% F7 R真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。* ~! v! M7 A4 c' p  o+ a1 N

% Y6 q5 p1 j: r. p, C9 q厦门越野联盟最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
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" s- y: i' t* w" c7 {! }8 M厦门越野联盟生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
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  • 乐乐儿 越野币 +3 我很赞同 2008-5-10 12:45

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain, c+ q, g! X) Y6 {5 K

9 D" f5 R9 y  Y# ~) u4 ]www.xmjeep.comIt was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.
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( R1 V2 I* G# E5 O% X3 c3 _He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.
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I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.) `# a0 C9 f; ]' E" ]+ ?! K0 B0 _4 n
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.* N# J9 b0 s: j7 ?8 U+ K" O2 i! V' ?' q

; J8 A3 ]) O- q2 x# GOn exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.. J) M! E! Y; C! Y

8 a- g1 k) L/ D' ^( T2 n  UThe man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.% P" Y  I" `- ]; u

6 d) V; z- y% X% j9 Q' [www.xmjeep.comI inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.www.xmjeep.com, z8 t$ p$ N3 _9 R# Z) i, c
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As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.
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He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
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I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?
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, F7 D- E. p  ]# U5 z) M0 J5 r  ]) THe smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".
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I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".
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True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.厦门越野联盟& c6 q- O" ]. _- f2 z# B3 z8 Q, p; f
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The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.
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5 \0 F+ `7 @# D* QLife isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.
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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。: r2 h. L8 f9 b0 f/ H
最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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