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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。
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3 c' t# u; @- T他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。
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我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。
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4 P) w( J+ G/ v% kwww.xmjeep.com看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。www.xmjeep.com' T& Z/ D, T3 ^9 B6 t3 V1 j  @3 `1 F

) K5 K9 q! @/ T; w: J! O7 @+ ~$ x: g  [他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?
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/ p+ Z4 O! H3 k( ~7 D他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。. {; x- P8 B+ _7 I
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我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。
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; u3 x- x: X, F0 A3 H% f8 o我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?
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& a5 k  Q. O- R: ~7 |" k他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"- b# u* w& d5 J. D

, B% @+ Q$ A( u; a, C4 [/ N% K他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"
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, V  T: y' F. I5 l- D7 j厦门越野联盟当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。
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真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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  • 乐乐儿 越野币 +3 我很赞同 2008-5-10 12:45

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain
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It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.www.xmjeep.com( I/ C( U# x/ F1 S& ~

& ~# A( G# l7 z8 z& bwww.xmjeep.comHe said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.
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I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.5 _( {: ?3 F6 m- Y
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.
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On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.www.xmjeep.com, {- z0 m4 D! g% I9 Y7 p
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The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.
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I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease./ m/ Y. P  B4 W: F* L$ |
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As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late." [3 x1 d) i( z

" `. v4 g6 K8 m. P, u% |He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.厦门越野联盟+ G5 {- _  N% Z0 k- s7 d: v

" ?1 ^& n+ A; e1 Y0 {" U9 EI was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?厦门越野联盟: k( P5 j7 s: G0 }5 M1 O0 m

* z$ M0 ]8 G* w  ~" mHe smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".% a5 ^6 N  _" U% A9 O
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I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".' x& Z: L! |7 u1 j
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True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.
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The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.厦门越野联盟2 {  ~0 @: Z5 F9 x/ D4 H

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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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