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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。
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% k2 H1 U1 ?6 z* K6 t9 V他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。+ ]3 \/ A4 k% s1 \' H1 }* ~1 G
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我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。5 Q, n3 T6 O- b

; c3 \. t$ I6 X- B2 R5 x' K看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。
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% t( Y- r% I. a% j. }2 o: G: Y$ v) e他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?. v* n/ l8 B+ X- k! E0 X0 c% x

3 f7 g9 e7 _3 i* T厦门越野联盟他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。9 h* F) u# R! z/ f7 T

1 u1 i+ z' r) D" b% h我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。
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: m/ T$ I, W$ E! U  X# L, S' m我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?www.xmjeep.com: E: \3 v- C7 b( d

1 Z1 v; x$ t. W* r) R+ k( [4 r厦门越野联盟他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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  A8 x6 T' e& x  x% G3 z4 P! }" j我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"厦门越野联盟+ b9 C! A: D; Y

# B. l4 q2 H) f2 b  N5 x& {他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"
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8 b$ O) u3 N1 A, _9 m当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。
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, a, S" L2 F* v7 x4 A9 T3 l真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。www.xmjeep.com( `+ ?0 u- H' h; D8 b, {
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最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。: P6 Y% V1 y; q+ _

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  • 乐乐儿 越野币 +3 我很赞同 2008-5-10 12:45

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rainwww.xmjeep.com" Z5 V! C  p$ ~" P) m1 b

! @6 w- Z: _' L# K' jIt was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.8 j! W6 I( {; B* J, D
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He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.
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7 ?" D" N( }* x. t1 X厦门越野联盟I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.www.xmjeep.com' W  f! m( P% k& y

, f  F1 s) }/ l; G  L厦门越野联盟I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.www.xmjeep.com( [0 Y2 c8 l: U! E1 Q
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On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.& Y& Q: p% C: }0 B  P
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The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.' G1 F1 |7 T( I. w$ d2 B

; Y: H: i, p# H厦门越野联盟I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.' h4 l& @/ j( \" G/ O

: V3 F  K- L3 m! Q7 IAs we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.www.xmjeep.com) }6 {; G7 z$ e: k, s1 e* H+ G( B" d
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He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
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/ o* ~. ?2 H: \! B" }, t# M1 f3 BI was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?www.xmjeep.com# Q" `# y0 X0 s& J  C
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He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".
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I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".
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True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.www.xmjeep.com- v- A: h3 V" Y
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The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.; o$ M0 l; I; }3 }% P, M- y

; O/ _/ f* X7 A% {" mLife isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.厦门越野联盟* f' |% y/ A5 B3 d
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中文由BOKANG翻译!

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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
$ k7 {% S% D4 C$ j8 T% [- F1 f( ]最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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