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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。: k2 A$ ?) B$ p. J, [" l

) s; I: s- k; n0 d5 C他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。
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7 V" n) L4 c, m2 K  F: y厦门越野联盟我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。www.xmjeep.com9 W8 T5 ?  h& |; r

& q5 c' k" R5 s" v看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。www.xmjeep.com! T' ]/ |$ i7 d/ Y4 W
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他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?
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+ J/ Y' J% Z1 o: D$ V! G* k厦门越野联盟他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。/ N! ^: w3 W/ P5 \! O& m: G
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我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。
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  g) L! h+ ?' k6 L! o厦门越野联盟我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?
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他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。9 W# B: o7 y' A" x. V% A+ s: j. F

% D9 o7 {& H6 a" g) R( v! n0 `9 j我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"2 ^( z4 T0 }3 n7 P5 L: L7 P0 r! }

7 `7 B5 K0 }  E& e6 p他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"
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当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。
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真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
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  • 乐乐儿 越野币 +3 我很赞同 2008-5-10 12:45

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain
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It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.  @$ ]. O" h, C3 Y/ x
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He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.
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) h% g3 x1 G( q7 R6 f$ R$ Q) @" B厦门越野联盟I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.
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& v" G! S( h" O9 Z3 x% T) b2 oI saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.1 l. N/ j+ b- G3 ?+ Y
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On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.) D; N! Y2 A9 ?- [8 x

4 v7 m5 x3 e1 O; a6 }$ |! lwww.xmjeep.comThe man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.www.xmjeep.com0 D5 V5 I0 F" U+ i' t
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I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
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+ S' m3 Q5 p4 [# J! k0 `www.xmjeep.comAs we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.4 [+ N2 i9 a! I/ S- }! P% ]+ Z
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He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.8 M% g% H$ w# m9 t) u- {& R" J
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I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?. ^0 L$ f* t- [" u" P: }* [1 D9 j
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He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".% O3 s2 z9 U: z  S

7 z$ x- i% B2 V8 _厦门越野联盟I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".
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6 g  A' p7 Y" f/ I8 }" h' UTrue love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.  p9 |/ L6 ?, W& U4 ?4 e6 C

9 n. {( W3 p7 t  h1 pThe happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.www.xmjeep.com! m, M1 z5 ~) i
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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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