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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。厦门越野联盟3 c. W3 d& f" l2 s3 C7 F
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他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。
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我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。' {% |5 Z' I  T; o4 W1 z
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看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。www.xmjeep.com" Q) j) O. O% C0 \
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他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?
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8 @5 h" J4 n% H他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。厦门越野联盟- `+ j/ H( ]$ v

( f1 e- V" B  ~/ g! d+ u我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。
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我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?
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4 A% @8 a1 ~* o7 S  `; f' V他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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% k7 Z$ h  N1 _. r3 e我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"
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+ E  X/ q8 G, {( r3 \4 O" D他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"7 j( a5 W/ x) v' f4 I- f& A
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当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。
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5 \" k" v8 e0 e5 C! V; y8 o9 c真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。厦门越野联盟* k4 w/ F* |8 Q3 D
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最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
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  • 乐乐儿 越野币 +3 我很赞同 2008-5-10 12:45

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain
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It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.
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He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.* H) q! ?5 V1 E7 a

4 h& r5 s4 v, \8 t9 wwww.xmjeep.comI took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.
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- z  d$ H3 H. e4 G8 \: t; XI saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.
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! q5 D/ L# a9 s+ F3 P9 G: N8 L# ^3 POn exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.
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- i. m0 Y  o$ N0 X# cThe man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.# y: p) H( \+ Q5 c; m% ?( F' @
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I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.www.xmjeep.com  H9 x& a4 D  j) c: P+ w: R& T

$ l+ l) q- M9 s1 ^厦门越野联盟As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.
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He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.www.xmjeep.com- ~( t0 M/ I* E1 q6 D6 a
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I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?
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1 x, M, I$ ^$ m2 p  iHe smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".厦门越野联盟/ S; o/ ]. p- W: V4 t7 F- @* ~

" a+ u4 G  z& }& u# D( gI had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".
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True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.www.xmjeep.com1 B4 D$ R) @) ^0 a9 y: t

2 c9 v3 Q- l0 }: U  p, q5 ]/ _www.xmjeep.comThe happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.
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8 `. X, s& ]- ]4 OLife isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.厦门越野联盟. j$ N! N- Z0 s' w# C4 }, h; X0 z
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中文由BOKANG翻译!

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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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