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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。6 c; M- F. d( a, z$ r% d  Q. O4 V
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他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。4 _7 k' I: K$ `6 j
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我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。厦门越野联盟8 E3 J5 S* W7 o4 S$ \5 w
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看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。www.xmjeep.com3 R$ ?' U5 a$ C
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他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?* u0 w$ l" e+ n3 b4 `7 U% L

5 x3 E# q( V9 c  I+ D他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。
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我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。) u; ~+ P+ Q# P$ I) ]

, M# R3 i8 j4 `6 P. f1 B8 N3 X) @( l# B厦门越野联盟我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?8 c' H2 R/ N7 X7 g7 U0 ^

& s1 n( M% Y& E4 D他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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4 C; h# x$ U1 {; h我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"
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$ R" @! d% h+ {# D他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"2 N( g# o1 e! S4 X* Z0 {; ?

( O# J  d) C% Y5 [, n8 K厦门越野联盟当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。www.xmjeep.com* j* J# V# f4 {- N2 `" S

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6 @3 o0 E+ `; R8 q: w# ?最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。) H1 E: j, U7 J; V" |, Z7 k: f2 |
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生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain
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9 h! v6 `" I5 E1 H% p5 MIt was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.
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He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.厦门越野联盟$ U0 x. Q" v9 d8 T0 b% m

: P. p' g, }6 p( YI took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.& I2 }0 M; {4 r( u6 V5 q
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.
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# M6 Q# i' O, Ywww.xmjeep.comOn exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.
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The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.1 A$ K1 I* u% q7 _4 n* k
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I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
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As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.厦门越野联盟# Q' J3 o7 I0 y$ ^

9 `) l' L7 H+ i3 o& ^厦门越野联盟He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.厦门越野联盟, X  f8 C1 }3 G" \) H3 M' a

$ H  a3 p' c) [I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?
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) c0 o6 h2 }+ f0 C. BHe smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".6 t, a1 _2 F/ Z4 G5 W" C4 f
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I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".$ T0 X- v  T' i8 ?6 j+ ~4 Q! Q- m/ ]  o- {

( @3 s- f& P9 b2 A) WTrue love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.' q4 b: _2 B( z& t- X" x2 W9 h

+ s; D+ q# `9 F% D( p- aThe happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have., C" R" B+ p1 r+ X% c$ f
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.
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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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