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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。www.xmjeep.com& _2 i: C9 F0 a9 t- H% X

  G! y; e0 x1 O2 J# p9 nwww.xmjeep.com他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。1 l6 F7 D  s3 i8 a  z
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我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。
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  m4 f8 R  w3 q, [0 L( J/ L  Swww.xmjeep.com看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。, I( e) N) B5 Y" d) G
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他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?
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他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。+ i" F2 M$ b! x

, h3 N! u$ Y" s$ u1 vwww.xmjeep.com我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。& K0 Y0 L% F5 B" x+ s6 [
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我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?. Y0 z) p! }! ?7 c, [

. |8 n1 g8 l  Z! j! N他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。厦门越野联盟9 H! N( a0 L3 u$ T/ {
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我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"5 R3 B7 x3 |( r4 @6 Z+ }
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他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。", o0 [7 a# Q# k, d% p4 H1 {& e4 o

* _0 ^+ |4 e+ [/ O- ^/ z3 N当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。( x$ _, e5 B( [
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真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。% y$ n2 l5 M' W# J

" f  o) x$ _6 }/ l1 b生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
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  • 乐乐儿 越野币 +3 我很赞同 2008-5-10 12:45

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain
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3 S1 r2 C1 r8 V8 W* C) a3 |+ AIt was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.$ g2 j6 G) z" ]* o. u4 Y) H( i
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He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.8 ^; U0 w% {7 E  o& r$ i

. R3 K3 i) h/ H# v( [3 h  Ewww.xmjeep.comI took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.3 |! C5 P2 F2 E  c; o+ W
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.
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On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.厦门越野联盟3 S; ?9 B6 S8 F# l. t5 |
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The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.
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I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
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8 _$ y+ \  e, C* V. E厦门越野联盟As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.
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- o3 d9 S( o/ z! m/ S9 Q% fHe replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.  _. G# @* S. S

5 i3 ^, V5 Q) n  ?7 n2 EI was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?( F( U# ]- ^3 r( G
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He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".
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I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".. O" X" u% g1 L

% M3 ^& |5 |( z. J) I( X' \/ V' Q1 bTrue love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.7 C4 D7 d- P' i. B4 n

( k( b8 O# @! r5 B* C  J厦门越野联盟The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.
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中文由BOKANG翻译!

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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。" L; G* q0 F3 C  |8 D( u5 @
最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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