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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。
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他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。
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我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。
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看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。厦门越野联盟. O, m+ f8 @0 \) i* p
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他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?www.xmjeep.com7 p& ?+ z5 l! [  B3 E6 t. G7 ?' {. y

9 K6 r: o2 Z; l( l: M他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。  u6 e/ g$ R$ v

( h' _* W7 w( i- x. l厦门越野联盟我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。
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$ O5 f$ I- \: u2 C我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?
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5 y. J& d' A" a- C0 O2 X) G  w% v& Y他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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1 p2 t- ?- T9 S) p. Z, ^8 U4 B我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"
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他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"
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当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。
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真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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+ I6 |: O* ~" I: @& {www.xmjeep.com最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
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生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain# S( R# q6 a, J

% e; M6 z2 Q: x" }+ e/ cwww.xmjeep.comIt was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.) ?- U" S2 z1 |
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He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.
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7 z& R- e& T6 V# a6 Twww.xmjeep.comI took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.7 f) C8 n  v3 [! z3 q- q/ b/ k
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.  y1 k7 q, Y6 {/ A4 f! {
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On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.
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The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.
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) A* H7 Z' ^$ h) xI inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
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; y& J+ ]$ b) N& hAs we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.% h- K4 I! U+ B2 w% L2 }# V' A$ b
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He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
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2 A0 y- N/ Q+ b( _, K" D1 \# h" k厦门越野联盟I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?
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6 d! y6 G# S! d. JHe smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".7 _5 T! h5 H  }, t& A) V
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I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".& j) k/ u& U# [

1 e; w# ?% R; F厦门越野联盟True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.
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, u! ~' l7 p0 s% z$ D8 e; PThe happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.
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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。www.xmjeep.com4 T4 c8 h- J6 G4 O
最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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