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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。
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他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。: C* l3 i. ^2 @4 m2 q0 q
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我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。6 @" x6 l0 d$ E7 I, K9 G

& y+ y5 h" H) a1 bwww.xmjeep.com看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。www.xmjeep.com! `9 l: C9 p: X1 ?

" H/ y& D2 V$ i! v  H* ywww.xmjeep.com他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?厦门越野联盟) z" T2 {/ w% l4 Q
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他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。
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8 U2 x8 |. t9 Mwww.xmjeep.com我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。  Y0 a8 a/ c* I* k
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我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?2 _2 ~  n5 H7 ~. E
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他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"www.xmjeep.com4 Z% f7 T  |4 E$ @5 w1 p' ^

6 O% z- E  K9 _. Z) p* v厦门越野联盟他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"厦门越野联盟! Y! S* K+ w, o' m+ \! |$ c" c

' {8 h+ Q  H! C1 _当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。
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真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
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生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
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  • 乐乐儿 越野币 +3 我很赞同 2008-5-10 12:45

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain
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0 h2 K# i- b$ v4 s/ rIt was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.
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+ i% F8 v1 z9 L2 w; N; }+ wHe said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.www.xmjeep.com& q+ u& `3 J* B: `* a
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I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.www.xmjeep.com& t# n- m- U/ X0 x5 t( C- ^
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.
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On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.
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The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.
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7 o% ^& @+ m+ \$ a& g) L% oI inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.www.xmjeep.com1 e  A( m" k# W& U9 u- C

" z: I  n, B/ |As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.% Z. F2 u3 a( c% ~# Z

! M/ ^4 \& f( v$ s6 OHe replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.厦门越野联盟3 X, c7 d+ T7 \4 k, P6 O/ W( J

! z3 n$ a8 e7 y8 @0 Q8 ^' [# a6 g& R' k9 wI was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?
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He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".
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+ ~: e5 t: w% {1 @( E3 i' |厦门越野联盟I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".* ]( C9 v. c% ?
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True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.
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" ^) ?9 Y9 C& gLife isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.厦门越野联盟, R, h* C3 E& }. \
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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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