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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。
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- s' f, ?+ D4 I5 z他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。
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我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。
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0 f; L. D& P) k1 K8 P7 J看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。
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他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?
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( [" H5 s- }' |- G8 Nwww.xmjeep.com他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。( Q( H0 u3 W# C% x/ `

8 J. g* W% z% M! W5 O厦门越野联盟我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。
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9 K% y! v9 L. I3 W: Owww.xmjeep.com我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?
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  `; t: _& v+ F8 j- J: n. T2 D他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"; e. i* b) L; j! E& S) z

; L7 i$ i  ^- \% Y6 d) Twww.xmjeep.com他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"
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当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。
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' p4 b/ n7 [2 M0 [9 Q真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。* ?# I0 q6 X) f
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生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
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  • 乐乐儿 越野币 +3 我很赞同 2008-5-10 12:45

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain
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. e: U- v! z2 B7 ]4 V5 i- cIt was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.厦门越野联盟1 P9 \& V$ \8 p# i2 D

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8 S) ^/ [6 d1 p1 z5 \. W' w3 h/ k: JI took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.
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- R7 u* J2 C+ e: AOn exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.7 i. Z1 d& I$ L; x% z
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The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.
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I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.& X  c  Q) I! {% o% \9 }; Y6 g  n7 v
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As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.: Y" b7 G2 G) J8 e5 Y

; A3 V& L& q, XHe replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.1 O! e- a8 d/ ^1 y- P0 \1 ~8 |% W: |

' g+ C: u6 m) d$ g0 Y0 @  ~I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?www.xmjeep.com/ u8 i9 q! p- ^6 D) {
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He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".www.xmjeep.com1 ^( V0 E3 F' L! B

& N1 k$ j+ F4 [/ p7 ?" M2 Y8 YI had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".4 }+ n; y5 @, Y$ R; l
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True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.厦门越野联盟- I' w8 A' }4 K7 X2 K; s1 S; F
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The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.
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, ?! A( R! W/ h% A* TLife isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.
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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。厦门越野联盟! l5 ~) u. C4 f/ Z% }/ A4 s% e
最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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