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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。
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" @3 ~5 h; g6 l  E  ^. A9 U厦门越野联盟他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。7 K! c7 Q% v3 A) I3 e* H. k

# J% q: R* \1 r4 z$ u  `+ |/ V我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。
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看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。3 Z* ?: L9 e5 ~0 r/ B1 y! }

4 ^/ H. S8 |- |www.xmjeep.com他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?5 W  Y3 o$ H, s. U

- x  m& b: b' Z, f! Q7 z他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。
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我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。- J0 ?: N# s' H& P

1 |# \' T$ c9 v2 E厦门越野联盟我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?3 U( S$ I" R# }$ y  G

! D, V1 g# I6 |/ p! ywww.xmjeep.com他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"  z) N/ y% l0 y0 A7 O* h. g
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他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"
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& ?* K8 u. `* a" c9 F  k当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。
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* F5 P0 `' ], _$ j: y; fwww.xmjeep.com真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。0 {# z1 A2 G, `4 s
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最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
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  • 乐乐儿 越野币 +3 我很赞同 2008-5-10 12:45

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rainwww.xmjeep.com% q# G6 f- i9 n& H

; {" I1 @( Y, U, r# Z9 o$ aIt was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.) U; O* p& z8 W% p0 y$ W# F! v

- x0 _3 L6 n, V2 DHe said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.
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) l) ?, ]: q2 c厦门越野联盟I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.
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/ k7 f. {9 D  w/ ]( `( wI saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.
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On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.
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The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.
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) s1 n  a3 [" v8 }8 N) |1 T厦门越野联盟I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.+ w0 M: C, V  w) u
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As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.$ ^3 L7 s% K$ p6 f

) F3 k5 S  x' g% G6 RHe replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
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) t& ^, p6 H  W, y6 o( g厦门越野联盟I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?
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) |' o9 O% |2 @) P% H" l/ J, rHe smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is"." }9 F9 x) r! S
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I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".厦门越野联盟6 j0 }6 t( C* ?) u

4 _& `8 z. e5 o+ o1 OTrue love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.: M  k# u- z! b, Q! G" Y
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The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.
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; I. P; o# R6 Z# ?5 C; P4 ZLife isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.厦门越野联盟$ p5 C6 b5 i( O  g

0 `' y6 K' z: z0 p3 p% @厦门越野联盟中文由BOKANG翻译!

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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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