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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。
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+ \/ f" V6 W- @5 q# z他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。, |) [5 ^% ^9 x, }" E
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我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。
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9 W7 D# |  h" H( L* |厦门越野联盟看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。+ @' `1 ~' H3 U' M$ Q9 p, ?5 o* n
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他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?+ N' k& G3 |! h% a4 f% A
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他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。
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0 t: t6 e0 O  v我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。
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我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?
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他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"
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$ v( \9 K/ l6 i; F他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"1 }& @( t/ y8 {' h0 P# G
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当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。* l- ~" d. W4 q- @; u8 D8 x

, A/ _- K: ]1 Q) e- ?* \& f3 k  O真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。( q) L# y% ]. t- B
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最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
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5 j7 a0 g- ^( C厦门越野联盟生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
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  • 乐乐儿 越野币 +3 我很赞同 2008-5-10 12:45

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain
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# S8 n0 e  o  V, ?1 k6 @It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.1 u  Y$ \0 T3 A# j

" m3 i. n/ \1 swww.xmjeep.comHe said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.
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I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.
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On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.
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The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.% y; }5 ^% r+ u; v+ R/ e5 W

; b. J* @3 ?/ r8 _/ ?+ ]I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
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$ v# d. u8 V! n, G1 p, n" u" Y8 lAs we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.
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He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.8 p0 p) L7 L( m% m

4 {0 b0 b" a7 w7 `) {$ F2 ?' }I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?
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He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".
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% Y  G; Q3 |+ e* [1 ?1 `1 aI had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".
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* y+ J9 F* g( m  xTrue love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.7 L* `; K: k; ~9 }; `7 d7 D  _

" C4 P: R$ C6 |5 F* O厦门越野联盟The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.
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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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