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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。
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他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。www.xmjeep.com  K: T5 R' Y& g
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我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。
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# c% B: h' T$ P看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。9 ~, d( U. v. Z5 R- v
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他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?3 G  c1 W2 P9 e7 G
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他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。厦门越野联盟# o  S: p7 i- z
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我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。  E; c% S5 c7 z" W% u6 [+ P* o. F
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我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?% v) |# y% g' Y, ^( |2 ~
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他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。厦门越野联盟! q" n  P7 E4 y5 @/ A

/ ^' ?. O( Z) |( e0 w我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?") S" G8 u+ l5 g
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他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"厦门越野联盟; z: e6 f. X* U: `8 c

) D# ?( j$ c4 D厦门越野联盟当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。
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真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。# a# U0 n2 [+ x8 l
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最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。) e4 v* I4 Z; h1 a& y5 Z; o

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  • 乐乐儿 越野币 +3 我很赞同 2008-5-10 12:45

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain
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It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.
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I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.) d; g9 D7 y8 g1 d  S
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.
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# g! Y, O8 T7 e) \6 ~On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.8 W2 }5 N; l1 z- q. q$ c' H
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The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.% J) n& U: z" r7 K1 t
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I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
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0 v. u' D, M5 r8 J: i! Zwww.xmjeep.comAs we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.) O- H/ L/ I1 ^

7 ~# e3 @( ~: M9 _, j( W/ hHe replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
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! U( X* V4 Q9 q/ W  N# m2 Z厦门越野联盟He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".
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I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".
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; r* g* s6 j- p( x" K6 _, c- I厦门越野联盟True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.
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The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.
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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。  C8 C4 w4 Y' u- m0 G1 t- |
最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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