11 12
发新话题
打印

[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。
  L2 a" }1 ^8 _( Z( u) a  T1 I, S8 P2 O. j
他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。厦门越野联盟# }# K" m) M; V/ e3 L8 Z% T) u
1 M; P2 c% ^9 h  e" @
我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。厦门越野联盟: b; o7 N  I  Z' X/ `

) u% R: E( O: p4 L9 j" I- x( E看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。
, \5 |& W1 W& R0 S1 [7 Z厦门越野联盟
( Q" e* D3 S( Z7 `6 d* s) D1 i  I厦门越野联盟他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?
9 g, `" T: u2 B2 |; B厦门越野联盟厦门越野联盟9 k8 I1 o9 c' a* e, M0 w
他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。
, l( [9 F2 h' D6 @" z4 X" b
5 ~4 f/ {! c/ v, Y6 z' o# D我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。www.xmjeep.com2 o1 F) ^5 C" X
厦门越野联盟# j& J' m  k) i# \
我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?
) `7 g7 t1 c; B6 W3 o$ }# J/ n7 f5 V( P; w) q% L0 Z1 U
他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。www.xmjeep.com- @1 @  o1 m4 d

$ P3 q) e  T, z. j' _4 b1 W7 D0 A我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"
. B; B8 o( q0 y7 E; ewww.xmjeep.com
: G: x) U* l. t1 R: D4 c他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。") w) V1 |, m) B2 ]* L
! `! \, |4 g9 m% g+ F9 m6 ~
当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。
; i$ P5 `7 T# H$ _$ S. V, L, v; u8 Q$ W: _  b( Y( D0 m
真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
" c: H9 k6 r9 h' u. }6 K
. v& o7 `. ?- `8 W* W3 N7 _最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
- e: J) c" W+ Ywww.xmjeep.com
/ n+ l, N. n/ ]8 I生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
本帖最近评分记录
  • 乐乐儿 越野币 +3 我很赞同 2008-5-10 12:45

TOP

Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain% A- j3 Q0 |! i+ z' j4 ]
3 q  P# V, c. N( q" {1 g% w; ]& A) `
It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb., |9 p# Y$ H  W: M" r

3 V0 N/ r- }  [He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.
4 U" [, B7 W" [* v7 |! V8 E9 H厦门越野联盟厦门越野联盟! _1 d9 b+ ~$ X. f5 B) }! d
I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.8 e; a7 ?, b% V0 A
& _3 g" z: X: t
I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.4 T6 G+ v5 w% ~
* ?) j( V/ x# ^4 `1 w& E8 _& I
On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.
* g- R8 u( y8 t/ j0 l4 h# x1 }9 o8 U/ _( s! X# [
The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.www.xmjeep.com, j' k+ R" p4 \3 J( t! s( M' F# l

& J7 L- a  m8 R2 k( z& H5 K4 cI inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
# I( U: p+ k6 T- i. k. h厦门越野联盟
( o. M! N5 `4 j( U# k7 q; K1 c( xwww.xmjeep.comAs we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.. a" A: G4 j5 ^; L

! {) f. G9 l& G7 N& ZHe replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
9 }) y% k' C* Q$ W" t  O* m- y4 k! u! Q3 V: i
I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?
% `0 L/ y# P* E+ C5 z4 I/ S* E- f, U- o5 |2 t# r+ n$ b/ d
He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".% L5 f: S9 m. O. F
# i5 X( @" M: W" v: W; s
I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".- r! M0 i! g0 i2 Y6 ]* \
www.xmjeep.com% b% d$ ]* |& Y0 J  F  v: t; Z& X! V
True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be., W4 c# `& R' j; k: T" ]2 {$ Q/ O
( K4 [+ R3 q* n0 s9 d7 ]
The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.
3 y7 w* B* b/ k4 a# a
% c! d* L  J; D/ \4 F1 ]www.xmjeep.comLife isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.厦门越野联盟3 S% I. {7 G2 x. N3 D& [: n6 M
www.xmjeep.com7 b# Q' R; S" B  R
中文由BOKANG翻译!

TOP

好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

TOP

还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

TOP

顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

TOP

真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
7 ?" t7 m: M5 g8 p' U最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

TOP

帮顶............................
[IMGA]http://cn.f11.yahoofs.com/users/448523b0z9b0150be/72b9/__sr_/3712cnb.jpg?phQsShEBlcKBzDXX[/IMGA] [B][SIZE=5][FLY][LIGHT]地球太疯狂,我要回火星[/LIGHT][/FLY][/SIZE][/B]

TOP

再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

TOP

感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

TOP

好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

TOP

 11 12
发新话题
最近访问的版块