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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。
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0 k, J# [; w9 j, Fwww.xmjeep.com他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。6 `% v# s/ _. f* I, j' F# O% m# T
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我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。厦门越野联盟) M! t. a3 E/ x4 \2 x! X# Y# V
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看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。8 Y7 ^8 F( H' L! T. D1 B

6 Y" R0 p' y- P2 Q& y# X1 a8 M他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?
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6 B  W, l0 r: [6 K" Z0 X$ a; E( {www.xmjeep.com他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。" n6 ]+ `$ m) l2 j9 V' w" s

4 l. T9 f; O- H" F1 ?www.xmjeep.com我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。
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我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?
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他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"
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1 C% m2 [& e  m- F! E. G厦门越野联盟他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"
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6 M; |. o* _: ~  l$ v7 P当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。
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7 u, T0 {+ a  q0 K) b( r真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。www.xmjeep.com; u0 B2 u. D; b1 i7 J

+ r$ G, o- B( z) T- `0 `2 |% @www.xmjeep.com最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。5 B7 r0 `/ @1 q. ~5 U) p
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生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
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  • 乐乐儿 越野币 +3 我很赞同 2008-5-10 12:45

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain2 P. t$ Y/ ~3 f! e  i! T% _

5 F) \; [( E$ p% D. gIt was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.www.xmjeep.com9 R1 P; z" @8 Q$ X# P3 S( g

$ c: }2 m: Z3 a* H. K. z4 o4 u) fHe said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.
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I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.厦门越野联盟9 r- N2 s9 z8 w: `
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On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.
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The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.
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3 V; Y1 \/ O6 x7 x5 W9 `8 ?6 t厦门越野联盟I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
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As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.
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1 o& i  F% m) u' R7 ]He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
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I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?
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) Y* W  b5 [. c( w! RHe smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".
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I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".
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True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.0 \2 Y4 Y9 k( b
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The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.
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2 a! ~( m+ t1 K/ K) O, ALife isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.厦门越野联盟' d1 ]/ V: W/ O
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中文由BOKANG翻译!

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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。) }6 h  p! J9 L) l$ `: j
最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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