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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。2 }! b9 G: k1 q9 F% h8 M
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他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。
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我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。; V" J: U# m# e1 j8 l

6 }9 D6 \9 f0 q/ D2 z, v看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。
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7 _8 L  \; i# m6 E, C+ f0 Hwww.xmjeep.com他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?" {' J) ]6 ?2 {& n
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他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。
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. R# L% k7 s7 G8 \/ U. V% _我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。1 w# N7 P' G" [$ \+ \8 O
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我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?厦门越野联盟- u; L! ?0 M6 ]- R( F1 ]
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他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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8 _, O7 w0 J' Q4 b我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"
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' a: D) J( v$ I* |  A厦门越野联盟他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"厦门越野联盟! i' `. A1 M% h6 v$ \: q2 e" a

$ x% T' L" d0 J/ k: e5 U4 pwww.xmjeep.com当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。
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& e$ ~  U! c7 C. z) Q' j( \5 T真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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. N2 D9 ]4 P( P4 C最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
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生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
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  • 乐乐儿 越野币 +3 我很赞同 2008-5-10 12:45

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain
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$ @* R1 P) v- R0 U' a; BIt was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.1 j( ^5 G, `- j6 {' ]7 C2 ?: _2 V* B
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He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.
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I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.* i2 z3 E0 u0 C- d, q  Y' i
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.厦门越野联盟* J( I* Z* d! v$ ?% z  e8 x1 U

. {' X7 z  L3 ~" {# I7 Y厦门越野联盟On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.
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The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.; ]! D$ m9 `, ^! j

% A5 A0 j$ l& R& ]6 r. S5 Jwww.xmjeep.comI inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.厦门越野联盟( s5 P5 O3 G+ a  D9 Y- M
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As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.
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8 _2 B8 n  A2 z1 D& j  fHe replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now." B: W8 u6 o  c, b) c. D

4 ^4 M$ U$ u# |2 n$ WI was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?
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He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".
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0 c, f) c0 }, ]+ {$ J+ g& OI had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".
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True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.
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The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.9 d. b( [. O% o0 e/ t

" ^2 D: K: j8 S( R& T8 NLife isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.厦门越野联盟& c2 u% l6 M. h0 k: \- {/ T2 T8 d% X
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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。厦门越野联盟  O3 A4 w3 g. Y7 |
最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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