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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。9 S) R9 Q8 q! l( @3 D

/ r2 n0 s' r/ p9 F4 s, U他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。: `2 V$ C4 F) i8 p
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我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。www.xmjeep.com+ N' z+ w, u% k8 I: e, b
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看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。( I! v8 M2 C; z

- C( {* k$ i# F$ D他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?
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/ B/ X, G/ ^; n$ u/ k' R他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。
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2 h4 M+ F' w, h& V我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。( q$ c, X1 E+ ?) \
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我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?www.xmjeep.com7 c9 V. p7 E) F& [) |1 ?' ]

' P/ e5 O9 B) ~, v( A; y8 ]www.xmjeep.com他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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) Y* \0 d: g% N  ^我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"
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$ c6 X% k4 V; p# p) o他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"0 H/ j# X. |3 h# x
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当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。www.xmjeep.com* m( [2 q1 Z2 e

! d4 E/ E; u$ Q/ B真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。; ]$ e5 t& Q5 N7 y9 K+ Q0 ~- q4 a

# S) I- R8 l* \' h# e: \5 [最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
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生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain
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; B7 l( Z% S" q, x) x8 [7 E- KIt was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.) n1 e  C+ J/ s3 a/ _

% W, h5 t1 R5 c& R: P' w- ZHe said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.* G! c+ u0 i* E7 K4 {
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I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.! E8 w( m5 D, _
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.
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On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.
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The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.
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I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.2 h& D4 G1 i/ B! z' Q9 V

" s' e! w/ g$ W: f+ U& SAs we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.
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He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
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I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?
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He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".
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I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".  J5 K$ Q) |# `/ Y$ l' C

! m3 N5 C" i0 I6 Twww.xmjeep.comTrue love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.
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The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.
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: _# |# w( U% D5 C9 ELife isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.
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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。# u; b! h! e, u% x
最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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