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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。# a6 L( S6 B. V& ~' o& u

5 K0 \) D* ?/ k9 O' ~  J厦门越野联盟他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。3 p. g# @( d2 u. r6 Y  h

' h' n; [% t; T+ ~- Iwww.xmjeep.com我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。
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1 S( K9 K- \' P" {; cwww.xmjeep.com看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。
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他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?+ u( r) j5 o% X1 k

7 d' h) P! O* |0 k5 U2 k他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。
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5 Q9 }+ b* B1 V+ Z0 L& a我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。www.xmjeep.com$ ]" e& n% |( e7 x8 G' t% I
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我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?厦门越野联盟+ N. X1 I1 G: z) e) }. X! E. {+ s
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他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"厦门越野联盟2 r8 g# p! n! M+ E1 k  T" |% c
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他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"6 ^7 B" K7 U( b
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当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。
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, _1 x, D# }: x& M, S$ v厦门越野联盟真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。+ g5 ^- z1 h; H) z! j
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最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。, N- M) |/ D# j1 Y3 Y
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生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
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  • 乐乐儿 越野币 +3 我很赞同 2008-5-10 12:45

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain
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It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.厦门越野联盟& b8 K- X# K6 L% u# _4 N0 L6 c
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He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.
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5 ]* {* j0 t8 }# b/ B" I  r+ eI took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.; p' I/ z1 }0 Y* n! ~
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.
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, v( C  V: u% |7 {0 @" [On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.$ I! W( h# T6 A. ^" g0 T/ l* a2 v

* B2 b. q: D+ x# M) t. ^www.xmjeep.comThe man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.
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' n. a+ h, [" A# L厦门越野联盟I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
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  k! {2 C+ F- M9 O1 H% ]As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.www.xmjeep.com4 t# `! c1 @3 p& ~- `/ M

  q) V* C( ~) }! z4 M1 J5 MHe replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
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I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?
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He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".
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I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".
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True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.2 {* W8 d4 n1 Q/ g
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The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.7 o- i% o& }" M$ [

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中文由BOKANG翻译!

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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。$ X4 w5 v. e% g2 {& w. y
最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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