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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。
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他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。
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我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。) K2 W  \. ?* D

; B5 x# o- y7 s9 @+ C. jwww.xmjeep.com看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。
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他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?
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他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。www.xmjeep.com7 ~3 U1 |% F2 G
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我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。
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/ F' D- J- C: Z& u! M/ k3 X我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?
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" u" j8 H1 l. l0 B' @www.xmjeep.com他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"" N/ ^5 Z7 v$ F+ H! j( e& _6 Z
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他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"www.xmjeep.com- r" _+ R  F* q6 a

9 n" g2 o5 ^' |当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。www.xmjeep.com6 M2 z. }. @: ~. K1 R/ `0 i

5 X1 R: P7 D) d! y. x$ s真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
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  • 乐乐儿 越野币 +3 我很赞同 2008-5-10 12:45

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain
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It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.
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; t/ v( Q2 K. i' E, x( R3 V$ Awww.xmjeep.comI took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.
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/ _/ H+ y' m2 `& hwww.xmjeep.comI saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.
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On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.  j) |) ?% \$ f" Y$ i- s/ H
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The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.厦门越野联盟* ^. y. x+ P* r+ H5 U
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I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
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! `1 u. @/ g5 ]1 n: t, R- owww.xmjeep.comAs we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.厦门越野联盟3 X' {" F! y& j- V2 ~  s
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He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.5 Y( Y& D$ x& [5 `0 T) G
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I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?
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He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".1 S+ a4 Q/ B5 K9 z! f7 X

0 L8 O9 f) z) C- t, c" WI had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".
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True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.$ r9 m) B/ i5 p' u  p# B: Z- ~

8 X$ `: `2 j: vThe happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have." @$ E) T0 k$ @- ]2 E7 m6 w" Z

3 _/ d/ G- D0 P- DLife isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.
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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。/ V4 t" K& N. ~6 k9 z' ~% a7 L
最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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