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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。
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他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。www.xmjeep.com5 v  S8 v8 n9 T& @1 `3 ^

7 a' o- W2 Q* C- ?5 x2 i' ]  V我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。
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( ]& \; {& @  \2 t看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。
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8 G9 C. h* i" P2 L  [$ [+ g厦门越野联盟他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?
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1 x- i! l$ p# }/ L' D  [; l他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。
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我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。www.xmjeep.com- F8 B3 B5 n. g( w' \" C

1 Z& P2 p2 s$ G7 T我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?
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7 a. F, V" N4 M' d. o# {  x他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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# j. b. X( m( I! x! N+ h, b我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"
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他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"厦门越野联盟2 j( x3 ?: X* Q, s

) N: }( z/ P4 F/ ^* }厦门越野联盟当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。厦门越野联盟6 Z0 Q( D7 j5 G1 _: j

6 d- i1 E. r3 n* b7 W& t6 l厦门越野联盟真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。厦门越野联盟9 o- r! P5 O2 p
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最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。) l% B# e! [3 S' h

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain
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It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.# h$ K; ^2 Y5 }+ L9 {
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He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.www.xmjeep.com7 R8 j0 h# Q1 [1 _& C  r0 z7 f" M
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I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.
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; M+ V5 d+ \. f- W' {2 AI saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.www.xmjeep.com- J- C' f5 i/ o3 j- C$ Q5 P

4 @% W5 G+ n' ~' A: [1 V6 pOn exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.
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9 x" `3 a6 c/ s7 sThe man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.
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I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.) e+ v1 {2 O9 F# C. r; J1 x
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As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.  ^* z8 G! S" ]# U! |

8 F& `% x! F) W# `! GHe replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.www.xmjeep.com3 s9 x/ L4 _% _, H# H+ o
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I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?8 P1 W3 `8 D; z- t) J% @$ e5 @

; F% s2 d$ j4 q) V* gHe smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".
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8 k  N" Q0 \: t( ~! DI had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".
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True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.  M' J6 r1 d9 I3 T
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The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.
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  w3 p4 d, S! |( a, i. kLife isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.
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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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