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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。
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. V+ p! I2 d9 k' }' E他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。: i3 ~1 Z1 C9 G' [" V

6 P( y3 F$ {$ {4 @2 R% P厦门越野联盟我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。
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看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。# W# C6 V1 N6 O: M0 C' t) }

/ n+ r) |4 [& I他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?
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! T1 g( q2 ^. B! Y$ g他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。
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6 P% K0 i$ n3 `. i0 J; Xwww.xmjeep.com我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。
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/ X# v/ M+ g) c9 @我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?
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他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。9 r! `: l; ?: p2 |8 Y4 d: p
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我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"( h; p3 h" S2 n
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他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"www.xmjeep.com( T+ }: v# M# p% f( Y4 }

# q0 n0 i7 e3 J: B当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。厦门越野联盟7 k) Z% _0 L+ X5 F$ @" b; T/ w
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真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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; n8 _8 w, m+ Q9 w  I, H7 f最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
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  • 乐乐儿 越野币 +3 我很赞同 2008-5-10 12:45

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain6 [: D. L: R& _$ M, M- F) I8 a
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It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.' C, I: z! ^- x+ L3 h, U- k& ^" J

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6 w8 e3 B) i2 p- @7 e) \: OI took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.+ d9 G# W+ Z& u6 R! G
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.
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On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.www.xmjeep.com% j( Z! H# P4 L8 q( w( h

6 q, e; `% g0 M0 W3 z2 MThe man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.
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+ l; O5 E( U  KI inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
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3 S1 n$ B! {# `! z) c9 ewww.xmjeep.comAs we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late." L- I& j8 m% x: o9 C7 s
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He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.- ]5 h( N3 ]9 @$ g9 s
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I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?www.xmjeep.com" H% ]/ a" f+ A6 _; g; [
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He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".* |! z1 T' |3 _& R

. ~: [& g, X/ h& |. @) |I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".www.xmjeep.com' e* m9 E, _9 \) }* w& f* T; [/ I
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True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.
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The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.
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, R. C9 u; D* Z0 L: _4 zLife isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.
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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
5 U& R) I7 q! U  m* |5 @6 ^2 d最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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