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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。& `6 I& h/ |  g) H& o
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他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。
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我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。
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看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。
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他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?
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8 n* h3 _" `  a厦门越野联盟他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。
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4 N  u( {% i% y我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。
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我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?www.xmjeep.com) h6 G  Q; n  B. e4 M: x

: K7 |' D9 C, ]# w7 Qwww.xmjeep.com他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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6 c1 C5 w7 |+ F; x我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"厦门越野联盟: t8 x$ w, E0 _! C8 B6 \! n, L
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他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"
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当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。
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) R. D$ @) U. e8 y8 j, n0 k真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。厦门越野联盟* A) D- p6 P- x) q1 b3 ~( i* X7 t' m

" t& [3 V; g1 q/ z) M1 H; p2 J厦门越野联盟最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。3 v- A7 o4 L3 o! o/ A
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生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
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  • 乐乐儿 越野币 +3 我很赞同 2008-5-10 12:45

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain厦门越野联盟. J7 s- T" x' s& v( n

. N( L* Y( q7 Q% \8 l: ?; N0 v% Q0 p) ^+ Pwww.xmjeep.comIt was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.
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He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.
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6 G# u! b5 X+ B& g# j  l; ]I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.厦门越野联盟0 ^; q, p$ \, `6 U

/ j  g" g5 {+ \/ h' }I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.
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On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.
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The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.
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I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.- c- p: \" s* ?0 ^9 b, a; x+ S
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As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.
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1 }3 u: G8 q7 I1 RHe replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.  }7 D8 G5 \& |$ W. V. Z

& i, M4 i% n( m+ R8 S# U8 ~I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?
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2 x  x1 U& U% ~6 g厦门越野联盟He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".. C1 E; V+ C" Z3 k, V3 i

2 Z" [- r$ z8 u4 z5 ?I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".
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True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be." x+ K# V( y9 ?

1 l5 P( }* h1 ?, ^$ U8 L/ ?The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.
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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。厦门越野联盟$ h6 Z/ B/ c+ o+ u$ J( X/ z
最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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