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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。  t1 ]9 Y. l$ Q' O9 u9 }) D# O& t2 S
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他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。1 f0 ~; K8 E! Z% s- M

' ?$ K* q4 K. X8 }' A+ a) }  q我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。
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看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。
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! t: i3 o5 x1 F8 ]6 u- `1 Q厦门越野联盟他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?
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他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。
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我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。
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我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?
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; O( C) n% Q8 l, l他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。+ B5 J; u6 b0 @6 @; v3 d
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我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"7 R& m% c0 D# @/ Z7 T/ X

! w9 N9 M0 I5 E& |5 L他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"4 R( k6 `1 V& Q6 M3 |

4 L2 w0 D1 c: @% b0 [3 o4 P厦门越野联盟当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。9 q2 V5 d1 a# g# M

2 @& t. i# e% L& X: Y5 Z5 G6 M9 `真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。" U: G. o( S# Z' Y" u
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最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
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生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
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  • 乐乐儿 越野币 +3 我很赞同 2008-5-10 12:45

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain
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" ]+ A5 ]$ J5 S- D% G6 B* l厦门越野联盟It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.
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( _% w, R' V4 [9 E& r4 xwww.xmjeep.comHe said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.
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3 S" j+ O7 H* r9 [& RI took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.
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8 t; a+ A, p/ T5 KOn exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.
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The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.
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I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
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As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.
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He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
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6 [5 |' J6 N; A6 I9 m0 J; R2 GI was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?
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He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".
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9 n3 l8 g& d5 d8 [7 XI had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".  k/ [" m' X% a! e- i' l3 ]
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True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.
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The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.
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中文由BOKANG翻译!

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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。厦门越野联盟6 n  G- O# Y9 x6 }
最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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