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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。
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8 g/ }. ^' O; ^他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。
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3 [" V( X0 ]) ?# [& r+ p我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。
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看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。
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( u. ~4 N: J5 ^' E5 m5 e他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?厦门越野联盟- m4 W7 }1 ~8 a; C+ ?

* {6 b0 U' m6 H% G7 a& q他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。7 K! W2 n$ a" s' E7 k
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我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。
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2 }8 H7 p7 x* U- {4 @我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?
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; s0 [0 z/ r# D7 \' y" i! O6 X厦门越野联盟他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。6 m& m# N% i* i; e2 m; U: L

& D! p# p9 C+ ?" B3 F8 u0 b* Nwww.xmjeep.com我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"
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他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"厦门越野联盟2 _) t2 q$ P# m! ]; ?0 {& @3 n" @

4 v+ p# m. s3 k0 j厦门越野联盟当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。
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  h* x( T4 [2 Y; O+ a真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。" I+ W- `* Y8 S* t5 ?: f4 f1 r

5 k0 b0 u" v+ awww.xmjeep.com最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
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- q* R8 u, X. g) U' t+ d7 Mwww.xmjeep.com生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain
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It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.www.xmjeep.com# I% {! ^# K. ~( \, H  f; w
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He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.
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I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.www.xmjeep.com3 O( D' w0 s$ l- E. K: M
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.
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On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.
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: A$ S1 _' u$ w! w% GThe man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.0 Z8 p8 c5 _- T5 T

6 ?" r2 e( u% o4 @% D: _I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
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* L/ ?# v  _0 U. N9 o8 JAs we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.$ K5 U1 z+ H/ U# A

+ X, U1 `* d/ A# I1 THe replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.1 S' O$ g3 n) `( E4 g
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I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?
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! J5 N4 Q* B0 A1 k% O$ \6 lHe smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".
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I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".. I  o0 W* R3 O, g: E
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True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.
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* v, h$ u& r/ e. E) R/ W# W0 Qwww.xmjeep.comThe happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.
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