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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。; p4 |5 z' t: E9 l, ^" z" y
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他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。
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" [' x0 f$ \% u厦门越野联盟我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。
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看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。www.xmjeep.com' t: \: Y+ I6 V  ]6 H
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他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?
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% P% Q( _+ b& g, d他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。- v1 y" s1 F  J0 S4 P
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我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。" _% v  k! j5 o. I
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我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?
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他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。www.xmjeep.com, b* C+ ^# W/ o5 r0 w: I# S

$ z, q/ F( N7 t8 T) i0 j我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"
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他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"  t/ _  ^  d  F. }% d: w- G
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当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。0 M6 d  X: P7 T' X" U/ g" a4 s

  ~- h  P& j/ }' s- @真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。厦门越野联盟; G/ M; r( |% c' B/ |( D

8 z) A( J0 ^8 j) ?: b生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain
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It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.+ R  V2 D  e) G0 g. i3 c

' U1 O# [$ C! D- d* C8 ]: w# r, IHe said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.- R2 |! G1 l3 s0 u6 u" G

9 h: h6 w4 A4 N! K/ d: k, w* F! QI took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.8 L  l4 Z3 l9 A1 j7 b
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.
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On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.+ d* ^' n8 |% G% ?6 g0 n
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The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.  Q$ J$ T* T; X7 m% U2 }
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I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.8 @3 J+ y- U2 C# m# V
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As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.
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% c7 i: x4 B" hHe replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.+ d- \5 o7 ?& `5 {
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I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?
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$ L. K0 E( L; D! Z; YHe smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".
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I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".
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True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.厦门越野联盟6 V# }" z2 w) m, V  L, A
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The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.
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