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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。
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他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。8 b5 N( ~$ p9 F8 s6 R

! ~- C4 k7 S% o  T" u1 ^( }我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。2 E) u! A( ~# z  k2 l- n
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看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。
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他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?
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+ ~' z& R- X7 P7 a& ^9 P厦门越野联盟他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。1 U, K% s+ W! [
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我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。厦门越野联盟5 C7 B; V' C& W- d$ @1 s
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我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?- k( L8 z! Z. L' H9 W) a* I& g1 ]
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他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"
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; Q( V3 J* G' W. m  C8 L: \他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"www.xmjeep.com2 ~3 g0 i% M$ l2 R. e

# p3 ]: {0 d- F/ P8 z/ C' e" e当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。
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真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。4 U8 F8 |/ |. H9 j. f/ N9 w

; q3 ^2 W$ ^6 [: B# Y2 T( v+ s最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
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: m  e* [$ I% l" i厦门越野联盟生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain
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3 K( l6 n  B. W+ ^2 A" x# f: c, iwww.xmjeep.comIt was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.
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He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.& V- E! N4 `0 u: ~5 V: }
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I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him." [& I; \: t( `( t" H' W

" T4 d% {, P6 S  w# k* c& C厦门越野联盟I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.
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On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.
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8 R, e$ m) i* cThe man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.www.xmjeep.com$ x& C! n3 b+ R* ^

' O3 i) y6 @* DI inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
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/ }9 F/ S; X) x# L9 M( m- d4 }As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.厦门越野联盟* k5 D+ `3 _2 h4 V
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He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.8 x1 @8 W% `) {" o: E

3 i* ?0 }4 d! J& x$ U2 r, |( Z5 Swww.xmjeep.comI was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?  [0 ]$ w. n) m0 Y2 s1 q

. l; K2 u9 @% T% u* V. X; H5 zHe smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".
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I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".厦门越野联盟! c# `, r* \8 P) l! w; K
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True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.; m4 ]$ G( ^8 T, [5 G6 w

# O) _! ?  M$ C% x: _6 H+ N3 D' _The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.* L6 T1 X8 M; \3 h9 E' p

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